Has anyone else noticed that this thread is turning into a debate which is starting to get a little bit out off hand?
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Posted by $loth on Sun Mar 14th at 5:52pm 2004
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Posted by Skeletor on Sun Mar 14th at 6:10pm 2004
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Posted by scary_jeff on Sun Mar 14th at 6:10pm 2004
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| jeff, IMO gay is a choice, a conscience decision |
OK, it seemed to me like you agreeing with people who were saying things like being gay is heriditary or is only because people are being misguided. If your opinion is that people choose to be gay, then fine, but I don't think you will ifnd many gay people agreeing with you - and afterall, they are more likely to know than somebody who avoids gay people at all costs.
As for the bisexual thing, you seem to misunderstand. Somebody who says they are gay means they are attracted to the same sex, and not to the other. If you are attracted to both sexes, then gay isn't the word, because a gay person whouldn't be attracted to the opposite sex. If a bisexual person said they were gay, it would be misleading, because this would imply that they are not interested in members of the opposite sex.
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| The way Orph has been attacked in this thread for his views is disgusting |
Sorry, no. If I came into this forum and started a thread saying 'black people shouldn't be allowed to vote' or 'disabled people should all be deported', I could expect to take a fair bashing, because these are rediculous ideas. Remember that not so long ago, black people in western countries didn't have the same rights as everybody else, and disabled people were condemed to a miserable life in asylums - the ideas behind applying these discriminations are now largly considered to be stupid, surely you can see that such acceptance of that which is different is inevitable in any case where no harm results from this difference?
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Posted by Jinx on Sun Mar 14th at 6:36pm 2004
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there is either Gay, or Straight, there is no BI-sexual, once you have crossed the line, you are gay, you no longer have any claims on straight.. it would be akin to a part time rapist, or a part time robber, or murderer, you cannot part time an action even if you think gay is not a crime, it is a choice of action and there is no going back. |
Your analogy makes no sense. Bisexual doesn't mean you alternate between which sex you like, 'part-time', it means you are physically attracted to both sexes, not just one. Obviously the sex of who you are dating will be one or the other, but that doesn't change that you are bisexual. Comparing it to rape or murder is completely unjustified.
The problem, Orpheus, is that you don't back up anything you say.... it's like telling someone "your map sucks!" but refusing to say why. This is why people (including me) are getting fed up with you. You say you aren't religious, so that 'reasoning' is out the door. Scientists are pretty unified in the opinion that homosexuality is natural and unharmful. What the hell is so bad about it, then, that you condemn it so harshly? Does it threaten your ideas of what male & female gender roles should be?
Posted by Tracer Bullet on Sun Mar 14th at 7:09pm 2004
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WRONG Homesexualaltiy CAN happen during the whole birthing process, its all o do with the XX for females and the XY chromosones for males, the body is still the same for the male but with one slight problem, he is born with one extra X chromosone instead of a Y chromosone. [the opposite for females] |
Sloth that is completly wrong.
There are females who are XY, but there are no men who are XX. the reson for this is that all fetuses are female untill hormones are produced which give them male characteristics. if the fetus lacks a receptor for that hormone, they fail to devlop male characteristics and are assumed to be female upon birth. these individuals grow up as women, but require hormone therapy to mature.
Also, an "extra" chromosom causes downs syndrome, not homosexuality.
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Posted by Crono on Sun Mar 14th at 7:11pm 2004
I don't think Orph is wrong for his thoughts, I don't agree with them, not in the least, but he has the right to think what he wants to think, and I don't think it's okay for people to start attacking him because of it (which some of you are). You don't bring in outside feelings of a person to something like this...I mean that's why they get ugly, someone gets offended and goes off on someone else, then there's about 10 people who read just that one post and rip one into the guy who said it all, and so on and so forth.
Anyway, if this is going to keep going, keep is civil, and try to ask your questions in a more respectful manner then a demand.
And I just realized that my entire post is a run-on sentence
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Also, Hitler was against homosexuals as well, they got the same treatment as the Jews, blacks (where there really any other ethnicity in europe? becides european and black?) and so on and so forth. Why do you think the KKK has turned into Neo-Nazism? Which is also disgusting.
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Posted by $loth on Sun Mar 14th at 7:11pm 2004
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Posted by Tracer Bullet on Sun Mar 14th at 7:16pm 2004
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OK, it seemed to me like you agreeing with people who were saying things like being gay is heriditary or is only because people are being misguided. If your opinion is that people choose to be gay, then fine, but I don't think you will ifnd many gay people agreeing with you - and afterall, they are more likely to know than somebody who avoids gay people at all costs.
Sorry, no. If I came into this forum and started a thread saying 'black people shouldn't be allowed to vote' or 'disabled people should all be deported', I could expect to take a fair bashing, because these are rediculous ideas. Remember that not so long ago, black people in western countries didn't have the same rights as everybody else, and disabled people were condemed to a miserable life in asylums - the ideas behind applying these discriminations are now largly considered to be stupid, surely you can see that such acceptance of that which is different is inevitable in any case where no harm results from this difference? |
As per his point above, Orphs position is valid. Based on the premise that homosexuality is a lifestyle choice, not a genetic characterisitc, he has every right to discriminate against them. His point is not equivilent to racism.
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Posted by fishy on Sun Mar 14th at 7:30pm 2004
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Sorry, no. If I came into this forum and started a thread saying 'black people shouldn't be allowed to vote' or 'disabled people should all be deported', I could expect to take a fair bashing, |
Crono started a thread asking for opinions on gay marriage. Orf offered his. he explained quite clearly from the outset that he seen homosexuality as a choice, and that he felt stongly that it was an immoral choice. whether i agree with it or not, it's his opinion. he also explained quite clearly that he was not racist, as race is not a choice. same with disabilities.
so why does he deserve to be attacked for having this opinion?
Posted by Cassius on Sun Mar 14th at 8:35pm 2004
Homosexuality does exist outside of humans, and not just because of social conditions. There is, as has been explained, a genetic 'mutation' that can account for a person having attraction to his own gender.
I don't think that, for example, a boy can be born at birth, however, with a gene that tells him to be only attracted to a gender. What is attractive to us is an evolved perception, and by accident a male can be attracted to attributes that the rest of his society attributes to males.
Since for most of human civilization, sex has been primarily noted for sex and secondarily for making children, it is possible that one can 'take out' an attraction to the opposite gender upon a member of his own, for whatever reason.
However, the purpose of sexual pleasure is to of course have an incentive for having children; thus homosexuality cannot be considered a natural thing in the evolutionary sense. I don't think there's anything wrong with it being unnatural; but my opinion is no less 'evil' than one that shuns things that are 'unnatural'.
Posted by scary_jeff on Sun Mar 14th at 8:39pm 2004
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| Based on the premise that homosexuality is a lifestyle choice |
Fine. The problem is there is no evidence for this!! You people 'assume' it is a lifestlye choice simply because you do not understand that it could be otherwise, based on your own feelings. Frankly, this is where your whole 'opinion' turns into a pile of s**t. An opinion is meaningless if it is based on incorrect assumptions, generalisations and ignorance!! Just because somebody adds 'this is my opinion' to the end of an unfounded load of nonsense, it does not give them imunity to criticism - where do you get the idea that it does?!
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| However, the purpose of sexual pleasure is to of course have an incentive for having children; thus homosexuality cannot be considered a natural thing in the evolutionary sense. |
Yeah very good, how about the fact that people desire a long term companion in their lives as well as sex? How about the fact that people can't switch their emotions on and off as they wish - You tout yourself as some kind of hunk, if this is true then maybe there are guys that fancy you - if this is the case, do you think they have any greater ability to tun this feeling off than you do with similar feelings for a girl?
[edit] In addition, plenty of species have got by for a long time with a mating process that is far from enjoyable [/edit]
Posted by Skeletor on Sun Mar 14th at 9:06pm 2004
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Sloth that is completly wrong. There are females who are XY, but there are no men who are XX. the reson for this is that all fetuses are female untill hormones are produced which give them male characteristics. if the fetus lacks a receptor for that hormone, they fail to devlop male characteristics and are assumed to be female upon birth. these individuals grow up as women, but require hormone therapy to mature. Also, an "extra" chromosom causes downs syndrome, not homosexuality. |
Having an extra chromosome (AKA - trisomy) can cause different things depending on which chromosome you have it. Down shyndrome is NOT caused by trisomy on the sex chromosomes (XX, XY, etc) but I believe it's trisomy 13(?) Not too sure about that one.
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Posted by Tracer Bullet on Sun Mar 14th at 9:13pm 2004
Jeff, I have never seen convincing scientific evidence in either direction. I think your assertion that homosexuality is purely hereditary is just as ignorant as Orph?s position that it is entirely due to environmental influences. Developmental psychology is not well understood, and almost never as simple as ?it?s genetic?. There is never just one cause that can be applied to all individuals.
So, if you want to argue intelligently, I suggest you present your evidence for the heredity of homosexuality.
I myself am undecided on this issue. I cannot be bothered to research the topic, and therefore am far too ignorant of the facts to draw any sort of definitive conclusion. So convince me Jeff. If you can offer me credible scientific proof for the heredity of homosexuality I?ll believe it. I will not accept anecdotal evidence or simple correlation. There needs to be a clear causal mechanistic link.
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Posted by scary_jeff on Sun Mar 14th at 9:20pm 2004
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| your assertion that homosexuality is purely hereditary |
Tracer, where did I once say that? Did you just think that because I don't think it's a lifestlye choice that I must think it is hereditary? It wouldn't be so bad if you talked down to me about something that I had actually done.
Posted by Tracer Bullet on Sun Mar 14th at 9:30pm 2004
I seem to have made an incorect inference. What is your position on the nature and origin of homsexuality if you are so vehminantly opposed to the assumption which Orph has made?
/edit/ Sorry about the attitude Jeff. I tend to be a bit arogant, and this medium of exchange sometimes allows that proclivity to dominate ![]()
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Posted by fishy on Sun Mar 14th at 9:41pm 2004
Posted by scary_jeff on Sun Mar 14th at 9:48pm 2004
My position is that nobody one day decides that they like members of the same sex any more than you or I one day decide that we like members of the opposite sex. That simply would not make any sense. You are still stuck behind the fact that you can't accept that it is possible for a guy to fall in love with another guy in the same way that you would fall in love with a girl.
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| Based on the premise that homosexuality is a lifestyle choice, not a genetic characterisitc, he has every right to discriminate against them. His point is not equivilent to racism. |
Orph is wrong here because his premise is incorrect. This is my opinion yes. But where your opinion that being gay is a lifestyle choice is based on a self admited non-understanding of the whole concept of being homosexual, which seems kind of weak to me, my opinion that this is not the case is based on what gay people actually say. Did you read Monqui's post? Does it look to you like the words of somebody who just decided to be gay?
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| i never seen any 16 y.o.'s campaigning. strange that |
Laughable! Have you ever been in a school? If you were a 16 year old boy who thought he was gay, would you want your freinds to know??
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Posted by Tracer Bullet on Sun Mar 14th at 10:10pm 2004
No I didn't see Monqui's bit, I'll search for it though.
All very resonable. My objection was that people up to this point were attacking Orphs position without reference to the assumption on which it was based.
My opinion, as I thought I had already made clear, is not in concurence with Orph's. However I can see where he is comeing from and decided to take up the gauntlet on his behalf.
Going on from there, look at it this way; but note that this is an extreem example:
Do people decided to be criminals, or do they just grow into it? Lets presume there is no concious decision. it's just what seems natural to them in much the same way that homosexuality seems natural to gays.
In this model the end behavior is the result of a complex interplay of social and and enviromental presures, yet not everyone who is subjected to those presure becomes a criminal, or a homsexual. in the case of criminals we view submission to these presures as a choice, and punish them in accordance with this interperatation. Why then does the same logic not apply to homosexuality? why can they not be held respocible for their choice as Orph does?
Note that I do not hold homosexuality to be a crime. I am equating the postulated mechanisms by which these behaviors are produced, not the behaviors themselves.
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