exactly orph, its rubbish 
ok it wasnt true quoting, more paraphrasing but im boiling down how your sentences come across and the whole ridiculousness of it all!
Crono: homosexuality/the debate of issues relating to is always counterproductive 
but agreed, yes to civil services for homosexual couples!
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i dont agree with same sex couples being able to raise children from an early age though, simply because the child will probably be bullied to suicide :/ |
see, this is where i disagree, people have had to deal with this with interracial offspring for ages, and the suicide rate doesn't increase with such conditions.
it isn't the gays raising children thats an issue with most straight people, its the "passing on" of the life style thats so frowned upon.
the issue as i see it, is not so much of straight people in their box as monkee said, but the gays attempting to batter theirs down.. they created their box we did not put them inside it.
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That too Orph, but you think about it - as soon as the rest of the kids at school/in the neighbourhood find out little Jimmy has 2 Dads, or 2 Mums and that they are "fagots, queers" etc, his life will be a living hell...
plus you miss out on all the natural motherly bonds and balanced parenting as well like you say
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throughout history. children learn from their parents. you no doubt tell your kids things others do not agree with. A straight couple may tell their children being gay is wrong & no bloody doubt, thousands do.
Would the hitler youth have existed if theyd not grown up as little hitlers, being taught by their parents that thats how they have to be?
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i need to run for a while, but i wanted to add, that in spite of the fact that some of my opinions seem to directly contradict themselves, they in fact do not..
my priority system separates all of them..
i make sacrifices for my children, and grand children, they are my #1 priority. i extend that to other children as well, they come before many of my decisions..
its why i hate gays, but see nothing wrong with them adopting children if they behave themselves.. children must have a home, and thats all important IMO
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| Yes, because obviously single parent families always work and have a higher success rate than 'normal' mum/dad families! |
Thats not the point, i'm just saying it's not fair to put children into an environment which is more than likely going to be counterproductive for them when they start interacting with society.
It's got nothing to do with the sexuality of the parent or the ability of the parent, more so to do with the attitudes of society/education/"straight" parents toward homosexuality.
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Orph's kids are going to get their asses kicked for being stupid little homophobes 
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| see, this is where i disagree, people have had to deal with this with interracial offspring for ages, and the suicide rate doesn't increase with such conditions. |
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| it isn't the gays raising children thats an issue with most straight people, its the "passing on" of the life style thats so frowned upon. |
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| the issue as i see it, is not so much of straight people in their box as monkee said, but the gays attempting to batter theirs down.. they created their box we did not put them inside it |
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Orph's kids are going to get their asses kicked for being stupid little homophobes |
of course they will, but no more so than being different in any other respect.
i was tiny for a child, and got all the perks of being so.. but the fact remained, i became a track star sprint champion by jr high, i turned my disadvantage of getting stomped daily to my advantage.
the point is jinxy, i serious doubt they will be more picked on for it.
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| Actually what gripes me is to hear gays whine about gay rights. There is no such thing. There are human rights...period! |
| ? posted by KungFuSquirrel |
| The only harm being done to society is not from those the mainstream society fears, but from those who through their efforts, intentional or not, widen the gap between fellow human beings. |
uhh, if thats what i am doing here at snarkpit, i apologies.
i do not want to sway anyone to my ways... i thought we were stating our opinions here... if somehow i am corrupting, or perpetuating my archaic thinking.. i will bow out from this discussion..
my apologies gents... please do not allow my small mind to alter your futures, one i will prolly not share since the world is wandering away from my stereotypical thinking.
/me departs ashamed.
[addsig]| ? posted by KungFuSquirrel |
| I mean on a much grander scale, within society as a whole, and in no way directly aimed at you. |
none the less, some might share the concept and apply it accordingly..
i think i have stated my views enuff, and will only alienate myself more by expanding on them..
thanx for the wake-up call andrew..
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"i hate gays" |
New Study Links Homophobia with Homosexual Arousal
[edit] omigod, this topic is FLAMING 
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New Study Links Homophobia with Homosexual Arousal
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that jinx, is a poor joke indeed :/
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, and will only alienate myself more by expanding on them.. |
see, i confess my viewpoint and drop one whole 10th of a rating point.. that in itself is no issue, but when divided 54 ways, it means a lot.
i must truly have upset someone today.
people, you must really separate yourselves from what you hear here at snarkpit, and your feelings of the place, never allow your feelings to decide how you vote.
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i think i have stated my views enuff, and will only alienate myself more by expanding on them.. thanx for the wake-up call andrew.. |
andrew, i am not sure exactly how long snarkpit has been up, but i have been here almost as long, and i do not think it possible for me to have been acting all this time.
i do come here to be sociable sure, but my main goal is to be helpful.
for the record tho jinxy, the words "hate gays" you quoted, is on par with someone saying "i hate spinach" i doubt they will run out and slash/burn all farms producing the crop, nor will i go out and maim all gays i can locate.
the word hate means many things to many people, but it truly, best describes my feelings about the subject, when i think about it at all. :/
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