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Re: Fat kids
Posted by satchmo on Mon Jan 31st at 11:21pm 2005


My blood is still boiling right now as I type. I just talked to the mother of a patient who is morbidly obese. He's only twelve but he's over 240 lb (110 kg for non-Americans).

As I talked to the mother about having him lose weight and the danger of diabetes, she walked out on me before I finished, saying that I am rude. I am so upset that people rather turn a blind eye on their kids' problem instead of facing the issue. They want to deny that their kids are fat and instead just calling them "big boned".

I really want to make a difference, but I feel like I am on a one-man crusade against a tidal wave of junk food and bad sedantary habits. I guess I lost one today, and in the very near future, he's going to be diagnosed with diabetes. Decades down the line, he's going to have his feet amputated and his name put on a kidney transplant list because of renal failure.

Please, if you're overweight, do something about it now before it's too late. I'll try to save one life at a time, but it's a tough uphill battle against people's ignorance.

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Posted by Bobv on Mon Jan 31st at 11:33pm 2005


It's sad really, people dont listen to those that try to help until it's too late for them




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Posted by French Toast on Mon Jan 31st at 11:34pm 2005


:Tear:

So touching, so touching.

Good message, in short, fat people get off your ass and excersice.

Try not to go overboard on the metaphores though, it freaks me out when people do that. [addsig]




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Posted by Yak_Fighter on Mon Jan 31st at 11:47pm 2005


Sounds like a case of lazy parenting to me. Perhaps you should drop a note to Child Protective Services saying this woman is abusing her child. How tall was this kid anyway?

Also, this is just another example of why making fun of other kids should be encouraged in grade school. It's a sad day when parents and school officials rail against kids being mean when it serves a useful purpose in certain situations. Take this fat kid for example. I'm certain his mother has been conditioned to 'love him just the way he is' and refuses to allow people to make fun of him, but on the playground the other kids can ridicule him mercilessly until he decides for himself to get off his fat ass and do something about it.

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Posted by Mephs on Sun Feb 13th at 6:59pm 2005


I have no sympathy for the morbidly obese. I'm a heavy smoker and I expect no sympathy from anyone. I don't know if I'll bother giving them up because I'm lazy in that respect. People too lazy to look after themselves will die. Productive normal people will live on. Its natural selection. Let her feed her fat kid till he dies, people like that never slim to normal (non life threatening) levels of wieght anyways. They're terminally fat.
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Posted by Pegs on Sun Feb 13th at 8:51pm 2005


I dont seem to have any trouble when it comes to weight. seem to be able to eat and eat and never realy gain anything.
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Posted by omegaslayer on Sun Feb 13th at 9:51pm 2005


I take it you are a doctor of some-sort? Well you have every right to be pissed, Parents like that dont want to hear that it was their poor parenting skills that got them to where they are today. I have some simpathy for those children, mainly in the way that it is a medical condition that they can't help (I mean food is their happy "drug"), but much like any addiction, the only one that can help them is themselves, they need to stop the poor eating habbits and start a healthier life style.

But I dont necicerily agree with "making fun of other kids should be encouraged in grade school", because I believe that this will lead to more problems later on, sure their may be the "john bestow" in the 4th grade that will take the ridicule as a sighn to change, but I believe that a majority of children will be over sensitive, and look to food even more as a happy "drug".

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Posted by Yak_Fighter on Sun Feb 13th at 10:04pm 2005


It was a joke and not a serious suggestion. I thought it was funny 12 days ago...

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Posted by Foxpup on Sun Feb 13th at 11:10pm 2005


Blame MacDonald's - the world's most evil company. [addsig]



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Posted by G.Ballblue on Sun Feb 13th at 11:16pm 2005


? quoting Foxpup
Blame MacDonald's - the world's most evil company.

Yes. They put a gun to my head and made me get fat. /me laughes at that case

Seriously though. Between fifth and sixth grade, I was a little on the heavey side -- I made a sole effort to lay off McDonald's, and by the time I hit sventh grade, my school uniform pants almost fell off me

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Posted by DrGlass on Mon Feb 14th at 12:20am 2005


It was the same way with smoking, years ago you wouldn't tell a smoker that it was unhealty. To day though smokers get railed.

If being overwieght was an obivious choice like smokeing then it wound't be so tabu to attack some one who is over weight.
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Posted by Myrk- on Mon Feb 14th at 1:15am 2005


It is sad that some parents let thier kids get fat out of thier own lazyness... I'd never let my kids get fat, and I'd teach them respect- kids nowadays are so cocky, mainly cus they know we can't do much without being sued or taken to court or something.

As for me- my addiction is double pedal drumming. In lectures at school my feet are constantly going up and down like I need a pee or something, but I can't help it.

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Posted by satchmo on Mon Feb 14th at 2:10am 2005


Did you know scientists have proven that people who fidget frequently tend to be slimmer? Even if the fidgeters remain largely sedentary throughout the day, they end up gaining a lot less weight than those who stay still.

Apparently, we spend a lot of energy fidgeting. I tend to be the fidgety type, and that might explain my thinness.
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Posted by Foxpup on Mon Feb 14th at 2:16am 2005


People who walk several miles each day carrying half a cinderbrick also tend to be slimmer, but it's not proven. Just thought I'd bring that up. [addsig]



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Posted by $loth on Mon Feb 14th at 9:43am 2005


I know what you mean, there was a thread on a different forum about a week ago and this is what I put:
LOL. I'm sorry but I must throw in my 2 cents worth, you see if I do the usuall ewww type impression when I see a fat person [and i'm not going to call them anything else, they are fat!] why is it that people immediatly assume I am talking wholey about their image, my brother use to be overweight and I cetainly didn't do that when I saw him. No the reason I do it is that it is so in their face... it covers up their eyes, don't they realise that every time they eat that extra topping or second serving they are pulling them selves nearer and nearer to a heart attack or some kind of heart disease, can't they realise that when they can't even run the 100m without stopping? The reason I do is it that it is so blatently obvious that what they are doing to their bodys is so...Wrong! that they don't even think anything about it, and yet why is it so socially wrong to be so shocked and appauled about fat people when you are allowed to be upfront and say to a smoker that it is bad for you, but it's socially wrong to go up to a fat person and tell them that being overweight is bad for you.

/2cents

/rant.

110kg's? Thats almost twice what I weigh! (I'm 65).
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Posted by Trapt on Mon Feb 14th at 10:42am 2005


o/ - I'm a tad underweight I think. I don't know of any fat mappers. We tend to be the skinny, nerdy runts.

Parents who can't stand to listen to a doctor about a real problem with their kid should really start to think about what is important to them - The way the kid is going, he'll probably die before his parents themselves.

The truth is, people who are obese can't really blame anyone but themselves. They aren't FORCED to eat. They choose to.

Anywho - Try talking to the kid. If the parents are too obnoxious to do anything, it's probably your best option.

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Posted by thursday- on Mon Feb 14th at 11:30am 2005


My own response to this is, I'm about 101lbs (45kg), 5ft 6.. I'm 16 almost 17 and I have problem putting on weight. Although according to my doctor I'm underweight but healthy. I haven't gained or lost any weight in 2 years, and I eat like a horse. Healthy diet etc.

I just don't know how people can get so fat, even worse so is ignoring help. I disagree with the fidgety thing though, I tend to be idle and just sit.
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Posted by Myrk- on Mon Feb 14th at 1:38pm 2005


Metabolism my boy. Also other things that effect the problems are aspects such as the upbringing, and thyroid I believe. With an overactive thyroid gland you'll generally be more active and sleep less, which seems to be a trend with mappers... [addsig]



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Posted by Nickelplate on Mon Feb 14th at 5:30pm 2005


I am in a computer lab at college right now, and 4 out of the 7 people i see in here are moderately fat to morbidly obese. It makes me absolutely sick that people let themselves get to this point. I vomit thinking of the fact that there are 10-year-olds who weigh twice what i wiegh at age 19. Even more so at the fact that no one seems to think its bad in any way. I will be writing a thesis soon on how technology and society are reversing evolution. Here's a preview:

"With the advent of 'political correctness,' we have seen many things previously thought unacceptable become a social norm. In days past humans as a species shunned inferior members of thier species such as people who are fat, old, sick, mentally ill, and crippled. This is how natural selection works. In theory, if a certain family line was genetically predisposed to a terminal illness, they would die out and eventually there would be no more of this genetic fault left to propagate. Take my own poor eyesight as an example. In earlier eras, someone with poor eyesight would be much more likely to die because of decreased awareness of suroundings and even a lesser likelyhood of hunting successfully for food. With the invention of glasses I can perhaps live much longer and appear much less sickly, thereby giving me more of a chance to find a mate. This only worsens the human species by letting me propagate my poor eyesight genes......"

Same goes for fatness, as soon as we embrace it, we degrade our species by predisposing future generations to this horrible thing.





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Posted by fraggard on Mon Feb 14th at 5:39pm 2005


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In days past humans as a species shunned inferior members of thier species such as people who are fat, old, sick, mentally ill, and crippled.


I cannot understand how anyone can honestly believe that this is "right" or "good" in some nature-is-always-right powertrip.

These crazy man-as-a-hunter/gatherer arguments have gone on for a little too long. Hint: man is not a hunter/gatherer anymore. What we are now is a product of evolution, and not something unnatural. The very facets of society you choose to debunk (political correctness) are facets that have appeared through evolution, albeit in evolution a different form and fashion. There is a reason they exist.

I believe a society can easily be judged by how well it takes care of it's members that are less fortunate. "Shunning" fat, old, sick, mentally ill, or crippled people does not take you anywhere, it just puts you on the same IQ bracket as the chimpanzee.

BTW: I'm not picking on NickelPlate here. Just ranting about half-baked ideas that people don't have the sense to think through.





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