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Posted by Gwil on Wed Apr 26th at 11:44pm 2006


I call an end to discussion on this topic. Ordinary Americans have trouble dealing with each others views on homosexuality, and threads like this only serve to increase tension between the two camps.

Endless argument could not change opinion (read: not FACTS) between the two parties. As long as these discussions continue to be based on "homosexuality is right/wrong because of reason x/y" I do not think they are informed, relevant or even agreeable topics of discussion.

I actively discourage this topic being raised as it only serves to demonstrate the worst traits of people and encourages animosity between the community. I won't stamp on it, but I don't look on this topic in a favourable light. It has been argued a thousand times before, and as was said, leaves all concerned with a bitter taste in their mouths.

American society will reach it's own logical conclusions in time.




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Posted by Orpheus on Wed Apr 26th at 11:57pm 2006


Sadly, even though I hate the topic, I find that passing on misinformation is almost as infuriating as not doing anything at all.

My only fear is, that I might persuade someone to think like myself. That, I couldn't live with. Whenever I post, negatively, or positively, its meant to be in such a way as to ONLY inform people how I see things. I NEVER want to persuade someone into my way of thinking because quite honestly, its a dead end direction.

People like me are dying off. For good or ill, damned few have the fortitude to hold onto their beliefs even unto total excommunication from ones own peers.

Even if it costs me every friendship I presently have, I will never waiver in my views BUT, I am so glad that there are truly open minded people. If there weren't, I'd have no friends at all by now.

It takes a heart of gold to forgive me sometimes.

People, if you do not take any other advice I ever give, take this piece to the grave. "Do not listen to folks like me. I have lived a miserable life and I would never wish that upon another fellow human being. Especially one I like as much as you guys."

/ my part in this thread.





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Posted by Gollum on Thu Apr 27th at 7:02am 2006


? quoting Nickelplate
I also think that people will defend other people for doing whatever they want, because if they admit that another person is wrong, they might have to admit that they are. Otherwise, why would such straight people even care how homosexuals are treated, as long as it doesn't interfere with their OWN hedonism?

Perhaps because they actually care about other people? Even people different to themselves?

Even people whose sexual practices disgust them (and hey, what about all the straight couples who enjoy sodomy; and waterworks, and fisting...)?

No, surely not. That would be a Christian attitude

It might seem hard to believe, but some people genuinely act from motivations other than self-interest.

I think Monqui puts it best:

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there are still PEOPLE behind the whole thing. Living, breathing, feeling humans.





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Posted by Nickelplate on Thu Apr 27th at 6:19pm 2006


I don't think christians have anything agianst fisting and all that, now premarital fisting is another thing.

Humans act on something OTHER than the natural instinct of self preservation? So we are different than animals now?

My whole opinion on all this is that only heterosexuality is okay, between consenting adults (married, if you want to carry it further). HOWEVER, i think that all sexual preferences will be accepted in the future, with the exception of the forcible and paedo kinds.

All i wanted to know is if you think that other S.P's will be accepted in society at another time.




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Posted by Spartan on Thu Apr 27th at 9:30pm 2006


I can respect people's opinions but I would think that as intelligent as most of you are there would be more open mindeness around here. One of you wrote that gay parents should not be allowed to addopt. This is bulls**t. it's something I find very very insulting even if it is "your" opinoin. I could go off right now but I won't. I don't feel like getting into an argument about this right now. So instead I'll leave you with this. Homosexuals are loving humans just like you all are. They should be allowed to show affection in public and raise children. I find adoption to be a great thing and you should too. If you really believe that gays should not have adoption rights then you are stupid ignorant fool.






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Posted by fishy on Thu Apr 27th at 10:05pm 2006


? quoting Nickelplate
All i wanted to know is if you think that other S.P's will be accepted in society at another time.

no, history never repeats itself.




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Posted by Bewbies on Thu Apr 27th at 10:34pm 2006


pound for pound, i've known many more respectable gays than respectable straights.

*shrug*




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Posted by Nickelplate on Fri Apr 28th at 3:11am 2006


Spartan: How does it NOT mess a kid up to have two parents of the same sex? He will be SO confused by the time he's old enough to have friends raised by "normies."

I don't think single parents or gay parents should be able to adopt a child.

Fishy: huh? Yes it does!

Bewbies: Straight people take niceness for granted. Gay people are used to being kicked, so they are more conscious of other people's feelings.




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Posted by fishy on Fri Apr 28th at 6:40am 2006


yes, well, a stupid question deserved a stupid answer.


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Posted by Spartan on Fri Apr 28th at 10:49am 2006


OMFG! Are you joking me Nickle? They can raise a child perfectly well, sometimes even better than hetersexual couples. Have you ever in your entire life seen a gay couple?




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Posted by Orpheus on Fri Apr 28th at 12:00pm 2006


You guys are tempting me again....

Stop and desist this line of thinking please... There are a s**tload of other kinds of people you can freely ridicule without the stigma attachments.

I have two grand children. Neither of which I am allowed to see now. Both have ungodly mothers but, in Arkansas, ungodly is not a disqualification to retaining custody.

How about we talk about mothers who don't deserve fertility?

Please lay off the Gay topic because you are all skirting disastrous outcomes, and Hurricane Orpheus will be at the center of it eventually.... And you all know it.

Homosexuality is horrible but not nearly as much as a child growing up with a nasty mother. On the scale of bad things, mothers who neglect their children far outrank homo's.





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Posted by Bewbies on Fri Apr 28th at 7:20pm 2006


homosexual parents nowadays are like african american parents 60 years ago. it's not a matter of opinion of who can raise a better child, but a matter of safety. kids with gay parents are much more likely to be picked on/beaten up etc.. or even become homosexual as well - causing the same difficult life. again, it's not a matter of what's better or worse.. but what's accepted by the masses. (homosexuality is still considered a great sin in many places.)

i like gay people - so don't get me wrong.. i even have a gay brother. more often than not, they're nicer than straight people. if i were gay, i wouldn't put an adopted child through the same s**t i had to go through.




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Posted by reaper47 on Sat Apr 29th at 3:23pm 2006


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American society will reach it's own logical conclusions in time.



Through what?

... ouch - sorry...

I was sick the last 3 days and couldn't really respond to Orpheus following posts. All I want to say is that I can accept you having this opinion even if I don't accept the opinion itself. I know I can't change your thinking (you obviously have more arguing power through life experience and proper English grammar). But there are young guys (like me) who are still forming their views on certain topics based on lots of little things they read and see and this might be one of it because it's a public forum.

I wouldn't have started a thread like this - it never brings a satisfying conclusion. I just felt like defending a few poor guys that are looked down at for what I consider to be no reason whatsoever. Yea, maybe it was useless. Farewell, highly controversial thread about homosexuality in a mapping forum...




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Posted by Orpheus on Sat Apr 29th at 7:58pm 2006


? quoting reaper47

I wouldn't have started a thread like this - it never brings a satisfying conclusion. ...

It cannot until people learn how to properly present their positions. I firmly believe in what I think and say, but sometimes being firm isn't exactly enough. In the end, as long as I am comfortable with my position, I feel that I have done my very best to illustrate myself adequately. The fact that many, or even most utterly failed to recognize my posts as definitive never sways me. The fact that someone else has neither the knowledge, or experience to see, or understand my replies is not relevant to the replies validity. I know I am right/correct/positive. Thats enough. I don't need numerous people telling me that this is so to be true.

One thing that I feel that many here always fail to do is exemplify themselves in such a way as to sound like they know what they are talking about, even if the topic is a bit sketchy as far as its conclusion ending in a positive way.

For instance. Most of the time, I talk about homosexuality, and not homosexuals. I can differentiate between the two because I can and do see that one is a concept, and the other is a person.

Most times, I talk about homosexuality ONLY. This time, I will talk about the homosexual. The idea of Gays, specifically Gay men adopting children will never be widely acceptable. Even though I feel that Gays should be automatically disqualified, that is not why they will never be widely accepted. The reason is, because the same rules that govern normal peoples adoption options ALSO apply to Gays. Specifically, No male is permitted, except under extremely rare cases, is allowed to adopt children. The general idea is, men want to rape them. Its a fundamental fact. Its pure bulls**t, very few men want to rape children, but the idea is "One saved child is worth all the bad feelings over not being allowed to adopt" In other words, if they prevent the event by not permitting the situation to happen, then they saved a child by default.

The bulls**t is, there are so many children that need parents. A few bad apples is ruining it for everyone.

Anyway, they will never allow one man to adopt, so by association, they will never allow 2 men either. So the Gay issue is MOOT fellas.

My personal belief system aside. The topic of Gays adopting is solvable/resolvable without getting insulted, or being insulting. Gays cannot adopt by the very rules that govern adoption. Not because they are Gay.

/story





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Posted by Nickelplate on Sat Apr 29th at 9:01pm 2006


I started this topic for a few reasons, but they're not important.

What is important is:

  1. No policies are going to be changed because of this topic.
  2. nobody is supposed to "win" here. I asked for opinions, and along with those come justifications for them, but It's not a fight or even an argument as far as I'm concerned. It's a debate if it has to be anything, and nobody WINS a debate.

Those who claim to be open-minded about such things because they are considering the ONE side of this issue that is most opposed-to are not open minded, they are just rooting for the underdog, in a sense. you don't become open-minded by siding with the minority, you become open-minded by looking at all sides of an issue equally. So if you are siding with only one side and claiming to be "open-minded" then you're a big, fat hypocrite.




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Posted by Orpheus on Sat Apr 29th at 9:06pm 2006


Most of the time Nickel, you are so full of s**t that I wonder how make it between baths. I actually cringe because on the rare occasions where you and I agree, your methodology is so chaotic that it makes me look bad too.

But, that reply actually made sense.

I commend you.

Well done.

we need to put this quote someplace for future reference.

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Those who claim to be open-minded about such things because they are considering the ONE side of this issue that is most opposed-to are not open minded, they are just rooting for the underdog, in a sense. you don't become open-minded by siding with the minority, you become open-minded by looking at all sides of an issue equally. So if you are siding with only one side and claiming to be "open-minded" then you're a big, fat hypocrite.





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Posted by Gwil on Sat Apr 29th at 11:50pm 2006


But you're putting factors in here (particularly about people "rooting for the underdog") that haven't happened. You asked for opinions and then argued against them. Who is trying to win? Or making an argument where theyre trying to win?

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Posted by Dr Brasso on Sun Apr 30th at 12:03am 2006


tsk tsk....***shakes head....let this one die folks.

btw gwilym, i always wondered this: what streets take the place of boardwalk and park place in the british version of monopoly? <img src=" SRC="images/smiles/heee.gif">

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Posted by Orpheus on Sun Apr 30th at 12:03am 2006


? quoting Gwil

Go back 5 steps, do not pass Go, do not collect ?200.

/me likes.

/me copy/pastes onto desktop.





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Posted by Gwil on Sun Apr 30th at 12:06am 2006


Orph <img src=" SRC="images/smiles/icon_smile.gif">

Dr Brass - you'd have to call the values on me.. best place to look would be Wikipedia. If Boardwalk say, were.. the cheapest (or one of the cheapest two) it would be Old Kent Road/Whitechapel. Without knowing their price/place on the board, I can't be sure..





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