Posted by parakeet on Tue Jun 13th at 12:12am 2006
The worst part must be like if there were a god . .you still don't get to live forever O__o. Maybe it's because i think of death a lot that i don't understand.
Please don't take this offensively , i've just always been religious and i don't really understand it.
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Posted by Orpheus on Tue Jun 13th at 1:28am 2006
Its a bit disturbing reading your last reply 'Keet.
I am a bit uncomfortable contemplating someone who'd kill themselves if they were suddenly faced with the truth about God... Or the lack of one.
I am not saying there is or isn't one but the thought of you ending it all because he was missing is upsetting. ![]()
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Posted by wil5on on Tue Jun 13th at 7:30am 2006
Some people (such as Parakeet here) need religion. Others (such as Orpheus) dont. I've heard of studies isolating areas of the brain associated with religion, I can't quote them directly but I beleive the studies did show that there is a physiological difference between those who are strongly religious and those who are not. I doubt either group will be able to fully understand why the other does/does not need that beleif in a higher power to function. I am strongly atheist, and I have many friends who are strongly christian/muslim. I could never go to church every sunday, or pray every night, but I accept that some people need that like diabetics need insulin.
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Posted by reaper47 on Tue Jun 13th at 9:13am 2006
This life is a great opportunity. Think of all the things you can do, see, discover. If I die I'm not gone forever. I'm a little part of history. I was a link in this society. I created things, I made people laugh or called their attention to something that at one point maybe changed the way they look at life. I hope to have children someday. Grandchildren.
And most importantly I was in the exclusive club of beings that know there is such a thing as mankind. And I'm part of it's development... forever.
The idea that the thought of an afterlife is the only thing that motivates me is a bit distrubing to me, too. For me it's very comforting to think of all the other people that will continue building this world for a long time. I'm just a committed visitor for statistically 75 years.
Posted by Nickelplate on Tue Jun 13th at 1:08pm 2006
It's true! There are a total of 23 churches in a local town of 2100 people. 'As for crosses on every hilltop,' I'm not sure exactly what that means. Anyway some of these churches in this town have only 10 people going to them. Some have none. That's religious freedom for you. If you support a right to atheism, why not a right to have a church on private land? If you support a right to own loud negro-stereo systems, why not some church bells that are not so offensive as "puff daddy?"
I don't know about your brother, Orpheus, but it seems that he is just another thing that is causing you to be bitter about religion in general. "Man, there's crosses everywhere." (I'm so glad you're not a vampire...) "My brother just won't shut up." It just sounds like you are mad at Christianity. I actually had a brother who was on drugs too, he stopped being a Christian so he could use drugs. He didn't like being told what to do.
As for my "propaganda theory:"
There are numerous ways in which Christians are made to look bad.
- we oppose the homosexual lifestyle, so we are "haters."
- We oppose abortion, but the media says we oppose "a right to choose" (makes it seem like a dictator.)
- Ned Flanders is a doofus
- Everyone associates us with THIS lady. http://media.putfile.com/Lady-Goes-Crazy-on-Trading-Spouses
- On NBC's TV show "the book of daniel." The children raised in the christian home are drug addicts and lechers.
- much more, but i gotta start working now.... more later...
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Posted by Andrei on Tue Jun 13th at 2:53pm 2006
- Everyone associates us with THIS lady. http://media.putfile.com/Lady-Goes-Crazy-on-Trading-Spouses
/Adopts Lenin voice
Stupid americans, hasn't anyone ever told you God doesn't exist?
TBH I think she was acting.
Posted by reaper47 on Tue Jun 13th at 3:42pm 2006
There's a law against loud music (Disturbing the peace). I do not support the right of it.
The phrase "a right to atheism" makes me think. I never liked using the word "atheism" or "atheist". It's not an ism. It's the lack of an ism. Like "a-existentialism" or "a-dadaism". Atheism is like the neutral ground to which all religions add something.
Isms are so often extremisms (Islamism, Fanatism, ect.) noone speaks of theism or christianism. Atheism never downgrades Theism. When we criticise something we have proof that it's wrong. When we say that the earth must travel around the sun we don't do it because we believe it or because it means a lot to us, no we do it because the way the stars and sun move in the sky makes it obvious math. We don't even say that evolution can be proved because it goes over billions of years. We just say it's a very valuable theory without a proper counter-theory. There is no such thing as Atheism. It's just the lack of Theism. There's just a word for it because of the many theists. But the only reason the phrase actually exists is because there is theism.
Atheism is completely neutral and doesn't require any "right" to it. It's reasoning in it's purest form. You can't fight it with law or science, only with an irrefutable proof for God (and I think we both agree that there is none). We atheists only define ourselves through the fact that we don't believe in God. There is no ideology, no movement involved. Even Buddhists are atheists!
As for my "propaganda theory:"
There are numerous ways in which Christians are made to look bad.
- we oppose the homosexual lifestyle, so we are "haters."
I think you are. Because obviously there are homosexuals who cannot change their sexuality by turning a switch. It's like "opposing" infertility. You don't even identify the fact that you do oppose it as propaganda, only the criticism which I find surprising. But we already discussed this topic to death in "the other thread".
- Ned Flanders is a doofus
He is. Is he representative for a majority of Christians? I think not.
Christians aren't the only ones being used for prepared TV scandals. It just was a "taboo" a few years ago. And I think most haven't learned to live with it.
If the reports about Creationisms I've seen (they were dry, German fact-checked documentaries) are just the tip of the iceberg it's still shocking and extreme. The amount of energy and stubborness involved in using science to prove believe is disturbing. I'm not talking about characters in fictional TV shows here. I'm talking about people with acted grins on their faces hiding a deeper bitterness and dependence on something that opposes any logic. Those people don't know how to give up. And that's not just a phrase, I think they have an psychological problem with it.
To make it clear I don't think you are a Creationist, Nickelplate. Very religious but a thousand times more reasonable then the people I criticise here. This is an example for where I think believe can lead to something negative. For why it's important to discuss these things and ask certain questions.
PS: wtf, did I just type all this?
Posted by Orpheus on Tue Jun 13th at 9:38pm 2006
There is a major and distinct difference between "Hate" and "Saturated" Nickel.
I hate so few things in this life. Religion and Homo's are not among them however.
I am negative toward each, both for similar reasons but I do not hate.
I am just completely tired of each topic.
I wanna talk about things I like. A really firm breast, or small circumference vagina perhaps, but lets leave the religion and homosexual for 2007 or 2008 cause I am full of both topics.
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Posted by BlisTer on Wed Jun 14th at 12:26am 2006
I am just completely tired of each topic.
lets leave the religion and homosexual for 2007 or 2008 cause I am full of both topics.
if people want to discuss things then it's up to them, no? you're not obligated to participate in debates. + everyone knows your opinion on those topics anyway. If you don't want to participate in a topic, just skip it " SRC="images/smiles/icon_wink.gif">
Posted by French Toast on Wed Jun 14th at 12:32am 2006
'Homosexuality debate 2007'
'Religion debate 2007'
It'll be just like this.
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Posted by Orpheus on Wed Jun 14th at 12:36am 2006
if people want to discuss things then it's up to them, no? you're not obligated to participate in debates. + everyone knows your opinion on those topics anyway. If you don't want to participate in a topic, just skip it
There is a whole plethora of topics I'd discuss that would prolly curl your toes. The point isn't freedom restriction but more a point of giving a topic time to cure a bit. Those two topics have been discussed more often than R_Speeds has, and everyone will admit that R_Speeds is a bit more important than they are.
I could abstain. I would more expect everyone else to abstain first however since, discussing it further will not advance the topics. However, abstaining could advance moral around here since I am pretty sure that I am not the only person tired of seeing those two topics arise.
I refuse to put it to a vote of any other democratic option since merely asking should by rights be enough to get everyone to avoid the topic for at least a little while.
Then again, perhaps not. But I warn you, I will indeed bring up a topic that will disrupt this site if I continue to be forced to endure these topics. Even if I have to invent it. :/
I dunno if any of the rest of you have noticed but, this site is in pain. It is in desperate need of something fresh to discuss. I fear that the current topics are driving people away nearly as fast as one of the other sites with nothing but children posting. Each atmosphere is detrimental to the health of any site.
This site is made up of nearly 100% mature posting active members. Lets try to find something else before we too fall into the category of "Sites best avoided"
I am not disrespecting you Blister, but I am indeed tired of these two topics and I will disrupt them completely if they do not end soon. With any methods I see fit to disrupt them with. ![]()
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Posted by BlisTer on Wed Jun 14th at 12:58am 2006
while you try to steer clear of it, this leans toward a totalitarian attitude, and exactly freedom restriction.
now don't get me wrong, i'm not all excited when i see topics emerging about religion or homos, but the difference between me and you is that i just skip it, and you feel obligated to have your say. and you are tired of repeating it over and over (which i can imagine).
now your argument that these kind of topics harm snarkpit and scare away people.. first of all, if it's true it will only scare away people that think of it as a needle in their eye, and not people who can easily skip the topic like me. Second, is it true? Topics don't emerge because someone wants to harm snarkpit, they emerge because someone wants to share a thought and hear other peoples opinions. It's what lives in the community, especially if there are many replies like in this one. So on what facts are you basing your theory that people go away because of these kinds of topics. People that dont like these topics can simply start other kinds of topics, no? or why don't they? It's not a zero-sum game. It's not because this topic is posted that another topic will not be posted. So there is no point in banning it either, it will not bring extra topics that you like, it will just bring silence or trivial topics.
If topics hold no value, they will bleed to death and go away automatically.
Posted by Gwil on Wed Jun 14th at 1:02am 2006
Orph - you don't have to participate in a discussion that doesn't interest you - you are not *obliged* to post all the time.. Thats why my posting rate has gone down tenfold. I don't think any of these topics are particularly exciting as i've seen them all before and it's 90% arguments based on personal ideals, hearsay and Wikipedia.
So I don't contribute. Simple as that.
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Posted by Orpheus on Wed Jun 14th at 1:14am 2006
The way I see it, and this may only be my belief:
If everyone feels compelled to "avoid" posting, why bother coming here? There are an unlimited number of topics. We can avoid 99% of them and still have so many to debate that our lives can be full and fruitful.
Ask yourselves this, "Why are we seemingly compelled to talk about just these two topics predominantly?"
Yes, I can abstain, but I won't. You know I won't, and I know I won't. So the question remains, What will I do and what will you compel me to do?
I can, and most likely use humor to disrupt the flow of the conversation. Then I will try more intrusive methods. In the end, we will find something amongst the garbage to debate that isn't about those two topics.
The thing that you guys seem to not grasp is, if someone can "talk" about topics, someone else is free to talk about it in a disruptive fashion... Sadly, freedom works both ways. It pains me to say that but, freedom works only when everyone can employ it. Even when the party involved... Doesn't want to.
Right this moment, I am wondering who will make me the bad person again. ![]()
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Posted by Nickelplate on Wed Jun 14th at 1:24am 2006
I looked up "really firm breast" on Wikipedia and it said that God created the earth in 6 days then breasted on the 7th. I think that is where they came from.
About the people who "try so hard to make creationism work:" Why the heck not? If you thought that ANYTHING else was the truth would you not do experiments to try to prove it? If religion is nothing more than a personal hypothesis on life, why deny them the scientific method?
About homosexuality, I'm not gonna say much coz it starts crap, but you can't compare it to infertility. while it DOES kinda lend itself to a no-children atmosphere, homosexuality is different from infertility in that homosexcuality is a feeling that CAN be supressed or changed (just like straight guys who turn gay, i'm sure it can work the other way; and many people go thier whole lives without heterosexual relations as well.) We view it like pyromania, you dont HAVE to light things on fire, you just WANT to.
I agree with you reaper: Atheism is a lack of ISM, but if that is so, why do people claim it under the "freedom of religion" part of the constitution. It's NOT a religion, its a lack thereof, and thus is not covered in "freedom of."
Also, reaper, I know there are LOTS of crazy christians who are stupid and stuff, but why do we have to choose THOSE to represent thw whole group? Can you name ONE living, internationally renowned Christian, who is famous for his Christianity?
I say let's dicuss something different. this topic was GREAT. because I finally outlined my beliefs so that all my other replies can be understandable to those who don't know the logic behind my beliefs. But anything else would be good to talk about too.
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Posted by BlisTer on Wed Jun 14th at 1:37am 2006
who do you mean by "we" ? a lot of members aren't posting in those topics. does that mean the people posting in them are less mature than the ones not posting in them? no, it just means they're still searching for other opinions and visions. and the ones that feel *obligated* to participate are the ones that want to reach them those opinions. no harm in that, but if you're tired of sharing your opinions, dont close the debate all together, it can still be valuable for the ones still searching.
Yes, I can abstain, but I won't. You know I won't, and I know I won't. So the question remains, What will I do and what will you compel me to do?
I can, and most likely use humor to disrupt the flow of the conversation. Then I will try more intrusive methods. In the end, we will find something amongst the garbage to debate that isn't about those two topics.
i'm sorry but this just reminds me of a kid on the playground that wants to play his game, but the other kids are playing another game, so he joins them, boycots their game, so they have to play his game.
Right this moment, I am wondering who will make me the bad person again. ![]()
a pro-active selfdefense mechanism? ![]()
Posted by Nickelplate on Wed Jun 14th at 1:51am 2006
lol, BlistEr
We discuss these two topics (mainly religion) because it effects EVERY part of our lives and effects every decision we make as well as every opinion we have.
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Posted by Orpheus on Wed Jun 14th at 1:57am 2006
Allow me to quantify something Blister.(assuming I can even apply the word to myself). "Remember who you are addressing when forming a reply"
I am one of the very few here who thinks "ANY" topic is an open topic. The problem with this site is, it wants to allow topics but they never seem to want to allow them to run their course and DIE!
The reason religion and homosexuality continuously arise is because both sides of the discussion are never allowed to finish.
If people here would discuss things to the end, even if that end is a disgusting one then less topics would re-emerge.
What strikes me as funny is that you can think me a child on a playground, yet you cannot see how immature it is to repeatedly beat a dead horse. Only children "avoid" things in life that they feel are unsavory... At least children are the only ones who avoid things that they have control enough to alter. Adults avoid too, but in most cases its more self preservation.. I avoid speed traps because I know for a fact why they are there and I cannot afford to sponsor some cops children through college.
(poor example, but the best I can come up with this close to bedtime)
In the end, you need to understand that being free can mean avoiding, or choosing not to. Even if the result of not avoiding... Goes up in smoke.
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Posted by Dark_Kilauea on Wed Jun 14th at 6:42am 2006
Maybe the reason discussions never die out, is because the topics become changed before everyone's done?
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Posted by Orpheus on Wed Jun 14th at 10:10am 2006
Maybe the reason discussions never die out, is because the topics become changed before everyone's done?
Read the heading. Then read the flow of the content. It changed pages ago.
However, not wanting to hear about it anymore can be considered "Back on topic"... or not.
The point is, the thread was used as another excuse to promote, instead of only to say "I don't".
See, we have had umpteen thousand threads about the virtues of religion, yet this one about not believing was ... Well, it didn't remain about not believing.
/sighing
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