very funny lep

you know, i have had my wife read some of my posts that have gotten me into hot water here and she understood what i said, with almost no explanation at all, other that to update here on what the topic was about.

i think the inflections that are missing cause some of the problem, but mainly i think its a manner of how we think, according to where we live, i am not just talking about the US and the UK, i am talking also of the deep south vs. the north east, we all think, actually process words differently.

also i think facial expressions, or the lack thereof, cause many communication issues.

most of all, i think the reason we argue most is, people always assume ill intent first (the ones participating in the argument) when they should always assume its a breakdown in communication.

my first question i ask myself when i read something that irks me is "did i just read that, the way he/she wrote it?"

i cannot count 5 times in 5 years i started a fight, its usually always the other way around, and invariably, its because the other side failed to comprehend.

refer to above post for definition..

at least, no less sound that it was when you joined snarkpit eh jeffery

/runs

on a side note, i would like to say, that snarkpit hasn't run/loaded this slowly in a VERY long time, i sure hope its sorted soon, cause this is rather annoying