compiling question

I want to know if I can compile my maps to to different places at the
same time because on my network I want to set it up so my family can
get to them and also so I can play them.

It's highly unlikely that Hammer itself can output two .bsp files and
send them to different places if that's what you're asking, so no.

However, it's probably possible using .bat files, if the process of
sending a file to someone else on your network is too taxing.

You might try the Batch Compiler, though I was already messing with that this morning and I couldn't figure out how to get it to make two Batch tabs (to make another copy of the map).