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                        Posted by sgtfly on 
    Tue Jun 21st 2011 at 11:42am
                     
                    
                        
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                        Being that generation myself, I think there's misconception on both sides.  I believe what he meant was to take a more active role in raising your children.
It's a belief that ppl use game consoles and such as babysitters nowdays so they can get on with their own personal agendas. 
I partially agree with this as I see it with younger parents whose lives are busier than ever. I don't let my g-kids sit for hours and play on the computer or consoles we have but instead make them go out and do things as we used to as kids, and I can see the difference. If the oldest g-son brings a friend with him he'll want to do things outside and his friend will mope because my g-son doesn't want to play video games and he has no desire to out and play other things.
This is extreme I agree but it's true we use technology to help raise kids to keep them busy so we can do what we want.
I think the whole gist is to get out with your kids and have fun with them and teach them about the real world and not what you get from games. Not that games are bad and can't be played, just don't use them so you can go do your own thing.
I'll talk more about it later.
                                            
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                        Re: Put Down Your Games and Read Your Books
                        Posted by Aazell on 
    Wed Jun 22nd 2011 at 8:37am
                     
                    
                 
                
            
            
                
    
                    
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                        Like all things in life theres a healthy balance to be had. A few evenings gaming a week and a few evenings getting out seems reasonable to me.
The generational divide is nothing new. Sure the older cavemen were intimidated and confused by the the young cave teens and their new fangled clubs and fire.
Its how the older generation cope with change. They critisise it, call it dangerous, the root of all the things they dont understand.
US kids are way fat though... forced treadmills with electric fencing round them should be installed at the high schools.
                                    
             
        
            
            
                                     
                                
                    
                        Re: Put Down Your Games and Read Your Books
                        Posted by sgtfly on 
    Wed Jun 22nd 2011 at 11:48am
                     
                    
                        
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                        The generation gap as it's called is not as big as it once was. I still game and use my computer alot, so do my children and my grandkids.
The difference is how I raised my kids and in turn they raised theirs. We didn't let hem sit for hours and play games on nintendo and Atari "Back in the Day". They also haven't let there kids do it either, and I see a difference from some other kids our grandkids hang out with.
They seem to have more imagination and want to go out and interact with ppl and are more active.
My biggest concern is not with games actually but interaction nowdays. It may sound silly but my concern is texting. "Back in the Day" we had to go out and find ppl to do stuff, you had to actually talk to ppl, or you talked on the phone.
Today it seems to be all texting which to me is less personal than other communcation forms. I understand it has it's place and it is a useful tool in situations, but it can't replace the human voice and or face to face interaction we have with others.
I think that's the whole thing with this is get up, get out and enjoy the "REAL" things in life out in the world with your kids. It's telling parents don't be selfish with your time and show your kids what's out there. Don't stick your kids in front of all these toys so you can do your own thing w\o being bothered by them.
                                            
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                        Re: Put Down Your Games and Read Your Books
                        Posted by Crono on 
    Wed Jun 22nd 2011 at 4:32pm
                     
                    
                 
                
            
            
                
    
                    
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                        They need to start putting out games that aren't immature masturbatory glorification of violence that's also mass-media supported.
It's not so much people not "recognizing" games, it's more or less that, from the outside in, video games look kids toys trying to be for adults. At least that's how people see it.
A few things need to happen to publicly legitimize video games as a medium:
1) They need to grow up
I love games as much as the next guy, but there's hardly a realistic portrayal of women in the genre, and even then they're not generally playable. Games are primarily marketed on violence, most of the time, and the violence and gore is over the top. Publishers are still making games in the mind-set of a 13-year-old.
Big games that discuss topics like deeper emotional relationships just ... aren't around. The deepest games we get are either niche titles, or widely panned.
Heavy Rain is probably the closest we've come to scratching this kind of surface.
It's strange too, considering that video games could tell a much more complex and involved story than film ever could, it's disappointing to see this not taken advantage of.
2) The audience needs to grow up
So, I'm not talking about the 15-year-old dude who thinks it's great to curb-stomp people in Gears of War. I'm talking about the 31-year-old dude who doesn't like anything more complex than Quake. They're the people who actively voice their opinions against any sort of complexity being shown in games, and they also generally think all these issues are "silly".
These people are the people who represent games to their demographic (family, co-workers, etc) and based on their descriptions (immature) these people are just adding to how those people, who are already biased against games, think; very counter productive.
3) Business models need to change
Currently ... publisher business models are shit. I don't even think they need to get rid of physical distribution to handle this ... it's really their internal investment strategies and what games they green-light and what games they don't.
I would argue, movie licensing has also damaged the industry in many ways.
It's more about who's taking what and where and how they utilize their code-bases (not very much) You end up with massive publishers who have wonky code-bases and engines that people can try to slap together, but they still require massive tinkering to even get it to work. This is a pretty terrible process.
Publishers also take WAY too large of a cut. They need to work out a business model more akin to film in some ways where teams get paid percentages in addition to wages, rather than just some flat wage, or being denied those because they decided they don't want to give up a quarter of a billion dollars.
From a publisher's perspective ... this is like playing the market ... and that really stifles creativity.
They need to look at it as breaking even + a little more. Rather than, Call of Duty levels profits. They need to actually properly market the game for more than the first week of its release (including supporting it after it's shipped). They need to not fire people who gave them a million dollar franchise so they can keep more profit share and milk the franchise further until death.
4) Everyone who likes or loves the medium of video games ... need to treat it with more respect
The very fact alone that people can legitimately argue that it doesn't matter if games are art ... is a bad sign.
If you think of games as nothing more than pure entertainment, then you're equating the entire medium, especially to people who don't use it, equivalent to trash tv or smut.
Currently games, in general, are close to be legally considered similar to pornographic materials in the united states ... this would kill the medium, plain and simple (it would also open the flood-gates for other mediums to be controlled). By shrugging this off and saying, "Well, it'll be fine, because this happened to books and music and comics too", is not going to help. Video games have to earn that respect to become a staple in modern culture, not just appear to be something akin to drugs or porn (both of which are very popular).
People can use video games as a scapegoat because of games like Postal or Gears of War. Because video games basically started in the "blockbuster violence" period ... it appears it's all they're good for.
People who love video games need to show their respect for the medium, and promote it, as a medium ... not as your favorite games.
They need to do things that help it, not hurt it.
Because, in general, even people who like video games ... if they're over a certain age, still act like it's a side thing to everything else in their life, like riding motorcycles, or reading.
We need more activists and people who are going to respect the medium and intellectually defend it who aren't people in suits who are doing it purely for profit.
Until any of this happens ... video games are going to be demonized, called toys, and continue to be misrepresented in the public ... until they're censored. And at that point in time ... it would be incredibly difficult to bring gaming back.
                                            
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                        Re: Put Down Your Games and Read Your Books
                        Posted by Crono on 
    Fri Jun 24th 2011 at 3:31am
                     
                    
                 
                
            
            
                
    
                    
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                        It'd make sense if the guy sides with doctors considering he is one. Chances are what he was talking about was from a research perspective or based on the assumption that all doctors were like him (I don't know if he's a good pediatrician or not, but there's plenty of doctors who don't give a shit about their job or patients)
                                            
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                        Re: Put Down Your Games and Read Your Books
                        Posted by fishy on 
    Mon Jul 25th 2011 at 8:30pm
                     
                    
                 
                
            
            
                
    
                    
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                        I was always a little sceptical about his credentials.
                                    
             
        
            
            
                                     
                                
                    
                        Re: Put Down Your Games and Read Your Books
                        Posted by Orpheus on 
    Mon Jul 25th 2011 at 10:49pm
                     
                    
                        
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                        Re: Put Down Your Games and Read Your Books
                        Posted by fishy on 
    Fri Jul 29th 2011 at 11:24pm
                     
                    
                        
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    2011-07-29 11:24pm
                     
                 
                
            
            
                
    
                    
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                        Been ok, I suppose. I felt bad about just disappearing from here without a word, but I knew most people would probably forget about me before they realised I was gone. I recovered a bunch of my mapping stuff from an old hard drive, but I've got no idea what most of it is for now, so I don't expect to be releasing any maps anytime soon.
Which is a pity, because the world would be a much better place. 
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waves to everyone