MisterBister said:
I assume that you define "natural" as in nature.
If so, how do you explain that there are gay animals aswell?
There are even species (sorry for not remembering their names) where the males choose to be gay during the seasons when the females arent "breedable".
My personal opinion is that there isnt such things as homosexuality, bisexuality or being "straight". We all may fall in love with people not their sex. We all may fall in love with someone with the same sex as ours. The reason why most people dont is because we supress those feelings, consciously or unconsciously.
We simply dont allow ourselves to watch people with the same sex the same way as we watch people from the opposite sex.
Now, I am going to try to put this in some logical fashion, but since we are talking about an illogical subject it might prove beyond me.
1st off, people may fall in love with the individual, and not the sex but how does that matter in the slightest? People fall in love, with someone else's spouse every day, yet it is supposed to be wrong. If its OK to fall in love with the same gender, it should be OK to fall in love with someone else's spouse.
2ndly, are you attempting to compare animals to people? Animals commit things daily, that people would go to jail for. People are supposed to know the difference, that is why they are animals and we are people. Now, thats not to confuse evolution and whatnot, because I believe we evolved from animals, but I would like to hope that being such, I could distinguish right from not right.. (I hesitate using the word wrong because someone will call me on it.)
3rdly, it is human nature to breed with everyone that one can get away with (some actually do) but most of us know its wrong to do it so we control ourselves.
4thly, its within a males nature to breed, period. Age doesn't even seem to matter, only our taboos keep us from having sex with children. Yet, even though a few do it we still know its incorrect. (wrong)
Now, you expect me to believe, that just because two people love each other in some fashion, it shouldn't matter that there genders are conflicting?
I for one, do not believe its a suppression of any sort. Its in our nature to know its (wrong) to have sex with the same gender. Our genetic make up dictates it.
I would be willing to bet (but have absolutely no way of doing so) that if there were a way to test people, people who have no preconceptions of homosexuality, that they would still be abhorrent to the idea if they were shown.
In other words, people are not taught to dislike homosexuality, its in our nature to dislike it. Its as much a possibility as being born Gay. I still disbelieve thats even possible, but if its true, so is being born against it.
The best things in life, aren't things.