Men!

From my (meager?) experience- confidence, style, independence, and humility are more important than raw looks. Most guys, if they dress decent and take care of themselves, clean up at least okay. The rest is what's important and you can work on it if you work on yourself as a person in general.

Confidence doesn't mean arrogance, or being a control freak. Real confidence is being relaxed & comfortable with yourself. Part of this comes from being independent, which I'll get back to in a second.

Confidence and style are also part of your body in a way. Confidence effects how you move, how you hold yourself, etc. I dance at clubs, which is a big turn on for women because most guys don't have the guts to do that (unless they are trashed). Style is important because it shows some individuality and whatnot. It can also- just as it does for women- 'show off the assets' so to speak.

Independence - Most guys, no matter how tough they try to act, are very insecure. Women pick up on it when a guy is doing that kind of self-conscious posturing, and when they are needy or possesive. You need to relax and have fun when you are with someone. If you act like you're going to be crushed if they don't like you... they probably won't. No one wants that kind of pressure on them, it's a total turn off (for men as well as women).

Humility is important because noone likes someone who can't laugh at themselves sometimes. It also shows you have self-confidence- enough that you can take a few hits and still feel good about yourself.

Finally... yeah being hot still probably doesn't hurt

wow I should write a book :rolleyes: .

Monqui said:
And if I post pictures of things I actually like, I fear for my safety :/

oh, now I'm just too curious.

(omfg Lep added my crate 'smiley' when did that happen?!)

I think cash is just trying to get away with posting pics of half covered guys..

(i think ive just done this to myself now..)



weheee runs

Doesnt seem like there IS any ladies here, and if there were, I have a feeling they wouldn't post here anyway

Cash Car Star said:
I mean, monkey penis? I'm straight and I don't look at simian boobies. You disgust me, azelito.

I apologize, I thought it was funny but now you changed my mind! Here are some real goodness instead:



I searched google pics for macho.

Also, check out the TS forums male thread. I hate that forum but the men are sexy. http://forums.specialistsmod.net/viewtopic.php?t=10718

'Sexy men' = 'gimps', in a model sense :argh: Hehe love the new smiley..

I'm more a fan of the "man's man" a gruff Indiana Jones/Solid Snake kind of person. But it's all in a purely "that guys rules!" kind of thing.

You're right. Solid Snake is the definition of a TRUE man.

[EDIT] here's some pics :biggrin:

Monqui said:
And if I post pictures of things I actually like, I fear for my safety :/

fear? thats sad monkee, being expressive should have no fear involved, being vulgar maybe, but never otherwise..

the pic you posted in the horror gallery was disturbing, but, no one attacked you for it, and eventually you replaced it anyways..

if you showed some taste and restraint, i dont think anyone would berate you... much.

OtZman said:

I'm more a fan of the "man's man" a gruff Indiana Jones/Solid Snake kind of person. But it's all in a purely "that guys rules!" kind of thing.

You're right. Solid Snake is the definition of a TRUE man.

So, by your own definition a 'man' has to be

• Tall
• Briselly (is that spelt right?)
• Husky voice
• Voilent?

Maybe I'm taking what you said out of context, but I think that it a little shallow minded of you.

It's just a joke... but you have to agree he's cool. He takes on a whole army of bad guys and beat em. (just like a man :wink: )

Ok, but I just can't stand people getting away with stereotypes! :smile:

Jinx said:
From my (meager?) experience- confidence, style, independence, and humility are more important than raw looks. Most guys, if they dress decent and take care of themselves, clean up at least okay. The rest is what's important and you can work on it if you work on yourself as a person in general.

Confidence doesn't mean arrogance, or being a control freak. Real confidence is being relaxed & comfortable with yourself. Part of this comes from being independent, which I'll get back to in a second.

Confidence and style are also part of your body in a way. Confidence effects how you move, how you hold yourself, etc. I dance at clubs, which is a big turn on for women because most guys don't have the guts to do that (unless they are trashed). Style is important because it shows some individuality and whatnot. It can also- just as it does for women- 'show off the assets' so to speak.

Independence - Most guys, no matter how tough they try to act, are very insecure. Women pick up on it when a guy is doing that kind of self-conscious posturing, and when they are needy or possesive. You need to relax and have fun when you are with someone. If you act like you're going to be crushed if they don't like you... they probably won't. No one wants that kind of pressure on them, it's a total turn off (for men as well as women).

Humility is important because noone likes someone who can't laugh at themselves sometimes. It also shows you have self-confidence- enough that you can take a few hits and still feel good about yourself.

Finally... yeah being hot still probably doesn't hurt

wow I should write a book :rolleyes: .

Some nice thoughts, Jinx, but really there's no one way to achieve any of these (dancing at clubs isn't surefire of course). A woman just wants a guy who can have power or control over any given situation while not encroaching upon her own.

Cassius said:
Some nice thoughts, Jinx, but really there's no one way to achieve any of these (dancing at clubs isn't surefire of course). A woman just wants a guy who can have power or control over any given situation while not encroaching upon her own.

Yeah, that was just an example of something that seems to have worked for me. And I like the way you phrased that last bit :smile:

[edit] you know, Solid Snake looks a lot like Snake Plisskin (Escape for New York, classic cult action movie)

Jinx said:
[edit] you know, Solid Snake looks a lot like Snake Plisskin (Escape for New York, classic cult action movie)

That's bizzare... in Metal Gear Solid 2, Solid Snake uses the name Plisskin... maybe it's connected some way, or maybe I just remember wrong...

you know, Solid Snake looks a lot like Snake Plisskin (Escape for New York, classic cult action movie)

That's bizzare... in Metal Gear Solid 2, Solid Snake uses the name Plisskin... maybe it's connected some way, or maybe I just remember wrong...

no, your right. as far as i rember theres more than one refrence to it. cant remember much else.

hrm, I'm sure it's more than coincidence, then...

A Snake Plisskin game is in production I believe, "officially" there is no link between Solid Snake and Snake Plisskin, though the designers may play around with the similar names.

It's just a joke... but you have to agree he's cool. He takes on a whole army of bad guys and beat em. (just like a man :wink: )

So he's "just like a man" because he can beat an army of men. What does that make the army of men?

..christ i'm annoying. :biggrin:

An army of wimps!!!

It's just a joke... but you have to agree he's cool. He takes on a whole army of bad guys and beat em. (just like a man :wink: )

So he's "just like a man" because he can beat an army of men. What does that make the army of men?

..christ i'm annoying. :biggrin:

Well, they are... LESS manly.

I lack the words to explain it properly :sad: I'll try anyway.

I think the problem lies in the interpretation of the word manly. I see as a general work which describes something "like a man". "Like a man" however, does not necessarily mean strong or brave, it's more of what the typical man is. I hope it's understandable now that one of the men from the army is more manly because simply he is more typical of the average man.

...haven't typed that much in a bit. :biggrin: