Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
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Personally, I grow weary of the constant debating over religion and politics. I feel its time for a moral debate. I fear that politics and religion will infest the debate yet again, but I will chance it.
The moral debate this time is "What should be done with/to people who knowingly pass on a sexually transmitted disease?"
Many people do this daily. They keep the knowledge that they have Herpes, or Aids, or any plethora of contagious diseases to themselves.
What should be done when the are caught?
If you like, you can broaden this to any disease as long as its passed on knowingly.
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Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
Posted by Orpheus on
Mon Mar 6th 2006 at 1:13am
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I deliberately phrased the question "knowingly" for a reason. To pass on something unknowingly is not nearly the same. There are some instances even I can envision where you could have something and not be aware of it. Lets try to discount ALL unknowing scenarios please. I would be willing to continue this with the unknowingly scenario "IF" it doesn't retract from the polls intention. This poll is an opinion based question on what should be done to the Typhoid Mary's out there. SHE KNEW what she was doing I might add.
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I voted other for the same reasons as Doc and ReNo.
Obviously, its morally wrong to spread STDs (or STI's as they are now
known), but as for punishment, it'd have to be done on a case by case
basis, and proving the person knowingly passed on an STI would be
pretty hard.
Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
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You guys do realize that with only 6 options that a controversial topic of this type cannot have but 6.. Right?
I do not mind you voting other, as long as you say why.
My personally belief is, if you knowingly doing it, you should be punished. Period.
The punishment should fit the crime however. Obviously, a death dealing disease deserves a life sentence and something that can be gotten rid of with a shot in the ol' butt a milder sentence.
Now, if you are hung on the "knowingly" part, well, I cannot seriously come up with a solution to your dilemma. IMO, there has to be some history to a disease. Take my brother for instance. He now knows for certain that he has a communicable STD. He claims he didn't before, but now he knows for certain. Yet, he tells none of his partners.
Another for instance. There has got to be some sort of a record keeping system at the doctor of choice. From the point of "confirmed' onward, THATS knowingly.
We could stretch this out all day into "unknowingly" but thats not the goal here.
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Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
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Mon Mar 6th 2006 at 1:42am
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I don't understand why "Pray for them" is an option, please explain.
Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
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Proof is the key here.
I mean think about it. For them to be guilty they have to know they had the disease and were passing it on ... how will you prove they knew besides a physician file saying so, with a note that the patient was notified ... or them admitting it, which isn't the bulk of people who pass these things on (unless you're in Africa, no offense or anything).
How can you prove something like that? It isn't like a crime of passion or something where evidence can be left behind.
Are you going to have a witness? "I saw the std travel through the vaginal walls and up his urethra" Or vice versa.
You can't use lie detectors, since they are reliable in some cases, but not in most (which is why they don't use them for official evidence).
You can't probe people's minds.
You can't really restrict a person from doing things if the other person consents ... You're not even considering if the person that contracts it knew as well.
Too many factors. We couldn't pin an obvious murder on O.J., but, we'll be damned as hell if we can't catch individuals who spread STDs. :razz:
Now, if someone admits to this, yes, there should be a punishment. But, like most criminals ... I doubt they'd admit it.
I mean, I agree it'd be nice to be able to do something, but it'd also be nice to punish people for emotional abuse ... but we really can't unless it results in some physical harm in the other person. (Seeing how many women you can sleep with and kick to the curb, for example, in my opinion should be punishable by law ... regardless if you're a minor or not. You "know better" past the age of 10 - 13)
The only other option is to treat it the same way they treat a minor and adult sleeping together. Which isn't always the best idea, because no one was hurt and it was completely consenting on both ends ... but ... "the law is the law", right?
In that case it wouldn't matter if you knew or not. You'd be busted ... but someone would still have to come forward and complain. And I gotta tell you, as I've learned, it's mostly people who have nothing to do with the situation that do that. It might turn out a little differently when dealing with something such as AIDs, but it'd still be along those lines.
But, I think, if you can prove it, in this highly unlikely hypothetical situation, the person who was "responsible" (which would be both parties, you should realize), would have to pay the other's medical treatments. But, that's a bad idea anyway, because then it costs everyone money. (Same situation as suing somebody).
It's a complicated, convoluted, but nice thought, situation. It's not something that you should really even waste your time thinking about.
A) I hope you never have to deal with anything like this in your life or your families.
B) Capital punishment of any kind will always cost everyone else money. Please, keep that in mind.
C) HOW YOU GONNA PROVE IT, SUCKA!?
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Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
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If a girl told me "sorry, did I mention I have AIDS?" right after a
night of wild sex, i'd definitely hang her from the nearest tree.
It seems fitting. :evilgrin:
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People often don't bother to fumble for a condom, let alone a card.
Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
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positive test = pubic tattoo.... problem solved. :biggrin:
It might also be a good idea to make testing mandatory, like renewing your drivers license or something.
Really though, this is just one more reason to hold yourself to loving long term relationships only. The whole idea of "casual sex" is hopelessly flawed.
Some people are like slinkys...
They aren?t really good for anything, but you can't help but laugh when one tumbles down the stairs.
Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
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Knowingly passing on a disease that will eventually kill someone should involve life punishment imo (having said that I wouldnt wanna share a cell with that person, ahem... so maybe hanging them from a tree would be more suitable). I dont really see it as different to murdering them outright. In fact its probably worse.
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What about someone injecting someone with a needle hot with AIDS?
Would that be assault with a deadly weapon? Would that be murder if the person died?
Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
Posted by Gollum on
Mon Mar 6th 2006 at 7:15pm
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<DIV class=quote>
<DIV class=quotetitle>? quoting Tracer Bullet</DIV>
<DIV class=quotetext>Really though, this is just one more reason to hold yourself to loving long term relationships only. The whole idea of "casual sex" is hopelessly flawed.</DIV></DIV>
Easy now! Mixing morality with epedemiology is misguided. Viruses do not possess agency, so let's not invoke them to support monogamy.
The connection between casual sex and infections is not a moral one; it's an unfortunate causal connection. You're just one step away from saying, "God made Aids to punish sinners".
Of course, widespread casual sex has the deplorable consequence of greatly increasing the incidence of STIs. But that doesn't ipso facto make it morally repugnant. Widespread intercontinental travel, a modern development, has greatly enhanced the ability of new diseases to spread; but that doesn't make travel a bad thing in itself.
Clearly, however, it is irresponsible to have casual sex without due care for safeguarding each other's sexual health (i.e., wear a condom or get yourselves both checked first).
Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
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Right you are, Gollum, but I'm not talking about morality here, and I think that makes a difference. Despite the fact that my opinion is one that is typically associated with traditional morality and religion, my statement is a logical conclusion based on experience and observation. It's far safer, both physically and emotionally to stick to a monogamous lifestyle. You're asking to get hurt in one way or another if you behave promiscuously, and I have little sympathy for those who do and then moan about it.
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As a college student I'm pretty sure I've heard that the United States
national average is 1 in 10 college students has a sexually
transmittable infection.
Pretty messed up.
Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
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Many people here have made the point that having sex with lots of people is more risky than having sex with only a few. Obviously this is true.
Some, however, seem over-enthusiastic in their expression of this truth, viz: "People who have lots of casual sex deserve to get STIs".
Could this, perhaps, indicate envy? "Serve them right for having a more exciting sex life than I do! I'm so glad I've only slept with a couple of partners, in long-term relationships, because it kept me safe."
Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
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what really chaps my ass about this topic, is that casual overall attitude im seeing....they have s**t out there that eats penicillin for breakfast, so why would you even consider a "heated rendezvous" with a stranger....there is no way in hell that you could convince me that this would be wise behavior.......especially since most of you gents strike me as quite intelligent....whats the old saying?...."a stiff pud has no concience"...should be..."stiff pud makes ya lose yer f**kin mind, and possibly yer life....."
....although my brother tells me that "you can get used to taking a 20 pill coctail 3 times a day for the rest of your life, whatever that is left of it...."
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What about situations where you trust a girl (and have known her for a
long time) and she says she's clean, but she gives you HIV because
she's psychotic/too embarrassed to mention she's got HIV?
I personally wouldn't put the blame on the guy in that situation.
I don't think you can say that anyone has sex deserves to get HIV.
I understand where you're coming from with your point that anyone who
is promiscuous deserves it (since they should count infection as a real
risk), but
where can we draw the line between promiscuity and acceptable
behavior? Do we draw the line at marriage? When should we have
sympathy for the one getting infected?
Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
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Sounds like negligence to me.
Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
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...if you survive the first encounter, value well being, and are able to learn.....wanna bet yer life on it?
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Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
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Fri Mar 10th 2006 at 5:19am
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I say we bring back public executions.
Better to be in denial than to be human.
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Re: Would you Punish, or Pray?
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Do people deserve the consequences of risky behavior? No, but they should accept the risks in a conscious responsible way. I read somewhere that you can do anything you want, so long as your are willing to pay the price, and that is basically how I live my life. I'm perfectly willing to risk my life climbing because I think it's worth it. The worst that can happen is that I will die a slow painful death alone in the wilderness, and that's how I want to go (maybe not the slow and painful part though). If you think an exciting sex life is worth the risk of emotional trauma and disease, I have no problem with that. It is no different form my perspective. Just don't cry about it if you loose your game, and I won't complain when I loose mine.
A frequent question I ask myself is "would I be happy dying that way?" If the answer is yes, I do it. You are never quite alive except on the brink of death, but in my experience sex does not generate that type of elation... it's a totally different sort. And really, if I had to choose between sex and mountaineering, I'd take the mountains... but I'm very glad I don't have to make the choice!