How do you like your eggs?

I go to uni with a girl that looks JUST like alyx, except with longer hair. It's awesome. Also, does anyone know the name of the girl that they modeled Alyx from? there is a real person, and she's hot and I wanted to find pictures but i can't find them again 'cause i forgot the name.

Myrk- I agree with the lack-of-curves analysis on "that girl" but girls didn't get boobs til later (age 15/16) in my day. and none of them dressed as scandalously as they do these days either. So I was missing out at that age.

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It's not your fault, she looks like 18 or someting. Now, Is it?

Exactly. I thought so when I first saw her... that she was like 18 or something.

I like her though... unfortunately I'm prolly never gonna see her again. Perhaps, only if, then on MSN.

Anyway, She is REAL cute and looks real adult-like, although her
vocabulary could really use an improvement. It really belongs to a
teenager.

Anyways, even if you saw her and talked to her, you could never
actually tell she is 13. But she's the perfect woman I've been talking
about. She doesn't smoke (has a very pure and clear voice, singing and
all), doesn't drink (disgusts it, when told), and - apparently, doesn't
do drugs. Anyway, I'd really like to know her better... She also has a
very proportional body. And it actually seemed as if I liked her... And
the feeling was mutual.

So... I think I'm really gonna miss her... Those spent-together 10 hours are really great ones...

Anyway, the .EE address is from Estonia.

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Alyx = Merle Dandridge

http://merledandridge.com/

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jake said:
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<DIV class=quotetext>wilma flintstone and betty rubble both pwn lara croft

Nay, Fishman, you've capitulated. Stick to your guns, mate, you were right.
</div></div>

it was either that or give gary glitter a shout, and see if he wanted to join in, but i think michael already made it clear as to what i seen in the original post, and it's context on these forums. for the most part, good sense and maybe a little modesty have veered the thread in a direction that it probably wasn't intended to take, and if my highlighting my concerns at how certain actions can fit certain profiles has had any impact on that, then i'm happy.

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Regarding that 13 year old... you really can't ignore the fact that a camera can show what you want it to show if you know how to treat it right. Some of those pictures definitely make her look more mature than 13 (although like Myrk, I'd still spot her for no more than 15-16ish), but different shots could give a different impression entirely.

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<DIV class=quotetext>Alyx = Merle Dandridge

http://merledandridge.com/
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Hey, huge. That's her voice, not the chick she was modeled after. The girl that she is modelled after is, well, a model.

[Edit] I FOUND IT! She's modeled after Jamil Mullen.

http://www.nyc.gov/html/nycmg/74/images/photos/jamil-mullen-large.jpg

[EDIT again]

[EDIT again]

on the original topic, you can check for your ideal girl here, you're liable to find her in all these! http://www.smgmodels.com/women/previewsAll.php

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Cash Car Star said:
Regarding that 13 year old... you really can't ignore the fact that a camera can show what you want it to show if you know how to treat it right. Some of those pictures definitely make her look more mature than 13 (although like Myrk, I'd still spot her for no more than 15-16ish), but different shots could give a different impression entirely.

not always true. there were girls in my school a year ago who were 13 and just as mature looking.

i understand what you mean. the photo does look a little Shopped

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I'm not talking about photoediting. I'm talking about lighting, and angle, and pose, and framing, and the precise second at which that shutter shuts. They don't look shopped to me, all though she looks like she overdid it on the make-up in a few.

The things that reveal someone as younger are more apparent in person - lines in the face, their walking cadence, how they talk, that sort of thing.

Well of course thats true. Barbara Steisand only lets people interview her in her own homes interview room, specialized to get the right lighting and capture only a certain angle of her face. I remember seeing the guys from South Park trying to get an interview with her :razz:

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Well... she is good with computers, types as fast as I do :biggrin: (i like it :wink: )

She is smart, intelligent, talks very maturely.. if you spoke to her, I tell again, you would NOT make the difference.

If I'm gonna go to the lanparty of eSports Arena 2005, and I get a VIP,
then I'll try to get her with me.... and who knows where we might end
up :wink:

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So if you go, and if you get a VIP, and if she goes with you, something
might happen. :razz: I wish you luck for expressing optimism.

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Yes, well, it's more than a month to that lanparty so we might get even
more aquinted in the meantime. It would be real cool to have such a
girl as a girlfriend... nobody even THINKS she could be 13 or so :biggrin:
(unless they are told, ofcourse :razz: ). I couldn't turn my eyes away from
her. She was beautiful even her being sad or grumpy. Anyways, she turns
me SO on! :biggrin: I've felt nothing like this before, with no other female.
No other female could made me worried "what if something bad happened
with her, what if someone attacks her or what if she trips over and
fells..." I walked with her most of the time along pretending to be a
"Security Guard " just to have a reason to "keep my eye on her".
Geesh... she had such a top... and she either shaves or she is too
young to have any hair except for the ones on her head ofcourse :razz: Her
breasts (notice the "adult-term" usage :wink: ) were so damn beautiful and
even... and so filled... so natural... for any 13 y/o her breasts would
be like a dream come true. I so wish I could even tap them... the parts
I've managed to touch were so silky and soft...

I think I'm in love, guys! I most certainly hope not :-? It was like a
love at first sight though, but I've loved someone before, too young
and too scared to make a first move, so I lost her (well.. i got over
it. The reason? Too big tits :biggrin: ) but this time I will indefinitely go
and take my courage and tell her that I like her... and if the time
comes around again, I will tell her as if I loved her... I told
the "other" girl I was in love with before, that I loved her, so she
said she only kidded with me... (so now i know how a female makes jokes
with men :wink: and Eileen didn't).

Anyways, I seriously hope I'm gonna get somewhere with her... I'm gonna start doing excercises to be of more liking to her :razz:

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Honestly, my own personal fetish is being used. And NO, I don't mean
strap-ons at dawn, or "lick my boots, slave" stuff. I like sexual
arrangements, rather than relationships. The feeling of only being
there for one thing gives me a massive buzz, even if the girl woman
wants more than just sex and go.

Yesterday, from my current woman I got:

The loan of ?5 for smokes

5 cans of budwiser because I had ran out of beer

oh yeah, and a CAR!!! Even though I can't drive I'm signing it over into my name tomorrow and declaring it offroad.

Now THAT'S prostitution. >:)

Madedog, it sounds more like you're a lusty young male than you're in
love. :razz: I'm pretty sure her having nice boobies and soft skin doesn't
mean you love her.

Also, you sound way too excited, so maybe don't expect so much in the offchance that something doesn't happen, eh?

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Girls put on to much makeup (at least some) me thinks :/

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no. Usually I don't even notice such things as soft skin and a gorgeous
smile. But with her... I do. Also, when I was with her, I was sorta...
having a strange feeling inside... I'm gonna talk to her over MSN...
that's lots easier for me to do :razz: Than to talk to her straight :razz: With
any other woman... I am not disabled on talking... actually it's
as if I have an unsilenceable sound. But when I'm closeby (alone :wink: ), I
have like my tongue sticked to my upper jaw so I can't talk... :razz: At
least not more than few phrases such as "yes, yeah, indeed" etc etc...
I told you - I have never fealt it before (hey - my target is NOT
getting her into bed! I mean.. 13 is WAY too little for having a baby
or anything! Intimate sexual activities can affect your studying
abilities... in either good or bad way :razz: ), unless you count in the
girl I was in love before... and to tell the truth... i have never EVER
fealt the way I do with Eileen, not even If I had Gerli closeby (she's
the last one... the "lost" love). So... I do know how a love feels
like. I am not a lusty young male... I'm afraid (yes, afraid, last time
it took quite a bump on me if I realized she was lost) to get hurt...
(oh, to mention... if something bad would happen to any of those two
girls, Gerli or Eileen, I don't know what I'd do... I still like to
have Gerli as my friend, but even more I'd like to have Eileen as my
future wife. As I told you... several times now... she is the perfect
woman I've been longing for. She fills all the requirements more than
enough.

Tell you what... I've LIKED several girls (yes, LIKED as in way of
wanting to go to bed with them and LIKED as in way of wanting to get
married and have a bunch of mini-me's :biggrin: and LIKED as in way of wanting
to love her... they are several feelings...), but I've never liked them
THAT much. The more I think about her (I've thought about most of the
girls i LIKED, but didn't even get close to this one here!), the more
the euphoria level inside me raises. Endorphines are storming my body,
I stop feeling pain... only pleasure and excitement fills my body. And
that's not a feeling a random beautiful girl would make... I really
haven't felt like this never ever. She gives me a feeling I could go
sky high... as if I could bring down the sun.. have you felt this way
before?? Or perhaps you can describe the feelings in you when you fell
in love?

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but she's 13...

Good luck though.

Until Later...

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how do i like my eggs ?

pretty, cute, intrigueing.

as for what i find pretty and cute,
this
girl is my type, but unfortunately it didnt last long cause she
lacked the intrigueing part.

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Madedog, I like you, so i am gonna tell you what will happen so you will be expecting it.

First of all let me preface by saying that I KNOW you will think, "I won't do that, she won't do that..." but it will happen as sure as the sun will rise.

keep in mind that this is only IF she decides she likes you enough to have a relationship.

• You and she will start a relationship in which you will chat on MSN. you will spend all your time sending eloquently phrased declarations of eternal love along with some occasional sexual references that you make her think are jokes, but they're really not.
• You will be so sweet and the exact opposite of the guy she was last with that she will become infatuated with you. she will tell you that she loves you and you will tell her.
• you will get that "special feeling in your heart." you know the one. Blah blah blah.
• You will eventually stupidly open your mouth on the subject of marriage.
  at this point let's have a momentary interlude to discuss the implications of what you've just done. there are a few possibilities from this point. and any of these paths lead straight to the destruction of,
  a. your relationship
  b. your trust for ANY women
  c. your cache of pictures to wank off to, because once you're broken up, that's just weird.
  </LI>
• IF she is a more mentally mature 13-year-old, she will immediately begin to feel as though she's "being tied down to only one guy for threst of her life". after this she will tell you that "Its not you, it's her" and "she just needs some space." and "she needs Some time to think things through"
• If she is of normal 13-year-old intelligence she will go along with it and decide that you are her perfect guy that she wants to marry. you will talk about kids you wanna have and thier names. You will call her and waste your parent's and YOUR money. You will close yourself off from opportunities to date other girls who are more your type/age. You and her will go on like this for at least a month, completely oblivious to the detrimental facts that:
  a. she's a 13-year-old, and those don't get married. It's at 12 YEARS until she is 25 which is prime marrying age (maybe even too early then)
  b. it's FIVE years until she is 18 and legal to have sex with (at least in USA) and no relationship survives 5 years without sex. (That's why Christians don't date that long, and they can't wait to get married!)</LI>
• She will break up with you.
• you will get really pissed off and hope bad stuff happens to her.
• She will realize that since she was in love for a little while she got skinnier and more attractive. other guys notice too and within a week, she will be hanging on some dude that is WAY uglier than you.
• You will stay single for a long time, because you will hate women by now. Thus, you will look like a loser and she will look like some sort of hottie that can have any other guy she wants.

remember, when all this comes to pass, you heard it here first!

also, remember: "Living well is the best revenge"

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personally i like my eggs overeasy , and you can take that anyway you like.

I seriously thought this topic was about eggs when i first saw it T_T...I guess the pit's changed quite a bit over the years.

Girls put on to much makeup (at least some) me thinks :/

I also personally completly agree with this. Nickels , being a christian i quite agree with you. Most of us cant wait to get married.

I personally like a girl whos not but 1 - 2 years younger than me .
Fellow christian or not doesnt completly matter but its a plus.
Definite morals and manners. Oh and generally decent looking

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parakeet said:
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<DIV class=quotetext>Girls put on to much makeup (at least some) me thinks :/

I also personally completly agree with this.

Nickels , being a christian i quite agree with you. Most of us cant wait to get married.

I personally like a girl whos not but 1 - 2 years younger than me . Fellow christian or not doesnt completly matter but its a plus. Definite morals and manners. Oh and generally decent looking
</div></div>

I agree with the makeup part. It's bad when you look at a girl who isn't wearing makeup and you never actually knew she looked like that. There's so much makeup that you didn't even know her REAL face. Although, lots of times the girl looks like she's sick without it.

I'm also a Christian, and that's how I know that Christians fall into the scenario i explained above more than others. because they wnt to have casual sex with the person, no marry them, BUT you can't do that as a Christian, so you hope that they're the right one and rush into marriage.

Morals are important in a girl, who wants to go down on your blushing bride on your honeymoon whilst thinking about the 10 guys you know she's slept with. I'd barf all over her vagina.

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I had a strange thing happen the other day. I went to a birthday
party for a 15 y/o with my friend Chris (mentioned above) becuase he is
"in love" with the 15y/o's sister (who is 18). The 15 y/o looked
quite old for her age, slim build (a litte too slim if you ask me) and
large breast for her age/weigth.

When she ran by wearing sexy underwear I was completly turned off, just
the fact that the girl was 15, even though she looked 18+...

but thats not the point. My friend Chris, after the party was
over told me that he had a new "love" this other girl that was at the
party (who I must say I was attractive both physicaly and personality
wise). The thing that freaked me out was how chris said he was in
love with her, he never even talked to her...

He is almost 20 years old, and he is still falling in love with every
woman he sees! I dont many people know what love is. Lust
is the feeling you feel when you meet someone that looks cute and is
attractive. Love is something most people dont feel right off the
bat. I've known a type of love only once in my life, and I'm a
person who doesn't "fall in love".

my point is, when kids like us say they are in love, and to use madedog
as an example, say we are in love with some one who is young... that
isn't love. I've seen so many of my friends in love, and seen
that love done in by petty problems, or new loves.

it will happen as sure as the sun will rise.

there's a difference between saying your opinion and declaring it the
absolute truth, and it seems you overstepped that line a bit strongly
honestly. Have you conducted a study on the subject? ppl are more keen
to think you write this with the bitter taste of personal experience.

i'm sure this situation -exactly how you describe it- will be the case
in some relationships, but dont get carried away in overstating the
truth-level here :wink:

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but d00d, she's 13.

It IS an absolute truth. Alsthough experience has SOME to do with it...

oh and Drgalls, amen to that... did you happen to get a pic of that girl running by?

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I think you guys also need to remember Madedog is in Estonia. I'm surely not going to propose I know how society functions over there. In fact, I dare you to even point to the place on an unmarked globe.

The things I see:

1. Madedog is nuts over this girl. Good for you, but I think it would be best if you held off on a few of the "this is the awesomest girl in the world posts." At best, they're boring to read.

2. They're four years in age apart. Both of my grandfathers are (were) four years older than the respective grandmothers, and I know countless others with around this age difference. In the long run, it's a fine difference in age. It'd be creepy if someone my age (22) was confessing intense feelings for a 13 year old.

3. They're in ESTONIA. I once again mention that we really shouldn't judge this by American social norms - especially in terms of the "what age is a good age to get married at" business.

Frankly, though this is my first post on the particulars of this relationship, I'm tired of talking about it.

Mephs, I think you're straying into the "Too Much Info" side of this thread.

CashCar. You rock.

Anyway, I'm fully aware of the Estonia/US difference. Let's just say for US relationships, that's the scenario for ppl under 18.

AND, last time mephs had a steady GF, he ended up drinking bleach. He's got a right to want to be used. +he's my coatbuddy.

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I'm still wondering though, what has this got to do with the price of eggs?

:biggrin:

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'Get your stinking paws off me, you damned dirty ape!'

I would agree that most of us probably don't understand the finer points of estonian culture, but I will comment on experience and observation.

While people tend to marry people that aren't their exact age. Grandparents are a horrible litmus test since society was radically different when they married. My Great uncle married someone because his best friend married this girl and he went "Damn she's fine, does she have a sister?"

It's not a matter of age, it's a matter of where you are in life. College/Highschool relationships almost never last. Why? Because the college mind is forced to become preoccupied with paying bills, getting a job, long term goals. Even the most mature Highschool student is still in an entirely different mind set. If people have completely different preoccupations and goals, the relationship is going to be splintered and not last. If you aren't growing together you'll most likely grow apart. Our environment radically changes who we are as people and if the environment is completely different, the couple won't be growing closer.

Just my Two Cents.

It's true though, the last GF i had was in high school while i was in college. It didn't work out. In fact it went sorta like the scenario i played out a few posts ago. I haven't had another GF since then and I'm extremely happy about it. I have TONS more money, now. Money to spend on MEEEEEEEEEE!

the world of college and the world of high school are so different, it doesnt matter if you're the same age or not. it just doesn't work witohut devine intervention.

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it went sorta like the scenario i played out a few posts ago. I
haven't had another GF since then and I'm extremely happy about it. I
have TONS more money, now. Money to spend on MEEEEEEEEEE!

well it had to play out like that cause it's written in nature's laws :razz:

no seriously, you're right that there's nothing wrong with being
single, but for me it's not for the money. This year i was single and
it was one of the greatest years i had. There's just more room for
going out with friends and meeting tons of new ppl, having ONS etc. By
which i dont mean i would avoid a relationship if it felt right.

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<DIV class=quotetitle>? quoting BlisTer</DIV>
<DIV class=quotetext>

<DIV class=quote>
<DIV class=quotetitle>? quote:</DIV>
<DIV class=quotetext>it went sorta like the scenario i played out a few posts ago. I haven't had another GF since then and I'm extremely happy about it. I have TONS more money, now. Money to spend on MEEEEEEEEEE! </DIV></DIV>
well it had to play out like that cause it's written in nature's laws :razz:

no seriously, you're right that there's nothing wrong with being single, but for me it's not for the money. This year i was single and it was one of the greatest years i had. There's just more room for going out with friends and meeting tons of new ppl, having ONS etc. By which i dont mean i would avoid a relationship if it felt right.

</DIV></DIV>

I hear ya. I've been single the past, mmmmmm, uh, since two decembers ago. A year and a half, And it's been GREAT! it's exactly as you say. And plus I really haven't found anyone i like since then. I live in a small town and I already know/have dated everyone. that or they know me and when they KNOW you you're in the "friend zone." I don't know what ONS is, but i guess it's like HARD ONS?

OH! it's "one night stands" isn't it? I don't have those. (ONS, not HARD ONS) If i ever found a good relationship that felt right I'd not pass it by.

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i dunno what HARD ONS is?

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er, except if it's not an abbreviation.. eh no man i dont mean that. i mean 1night stands. well it has something to do with it

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Well, thanks for anyone, but Nickel and you all guys... somehow I think you're VERY wrong.

1) I have a friend who got married 16 :wink: She was only half a year older.

2) In estonian culture, it is LEGAL to marry if you're under 18, you
just got to have your parents' permission for this. That is... WRITTEN
permission to somekind of law s**t... I don't know so well, but that
brings us to the next point...

3) IF anything comes out with Eileen... (hey - i know what a love looks
and feels like, so don't come to give me s**t about it. I told you -
I've wanted to sleep with lots of girls, but there are only 2 girls in
my life whom I liked not because they were only beautiful or that I
would have wanted to sleep with them. No. I didn't. One was Gerli and I
could TELL that I actually loved her. But as I said... I blew up in 5th
grade by not paying any attention to her... pretending I hated her...
(a real stupid thing to do, I say). But I never felt anything like this
(again and again..) in my life. That snap. I still am afraid of "what
if something bad happens to her?" "What am I going to have to do
then?"... you know... you really fully get over from the ones you've
really loved, as I think most of you have been in love. You still are
vary of what happens to them)... then even now I don't feel that I
would want to only have sex and marry her. For the ones you love... sex
isn't the only thing. I am even willing to wait until she finishes her
studies. Yes, you heard me. I can wait until she gets to her 18-s. The
4 year difference doesn't matter, she looks even now more mature than I
am. In reality. And even acts like one. In MSN though... she is really
like 13 y/o. So you could tell the difference.

4) I care about what happens to her. I want her to be happy at all
costs. As I mentioned in brackets... for the ones you love, having sex
is not the only thing that matters. Actually care about her, you will.
For he who loved Gerli, still cares about if she should get hurt or
even die, she still in his heart is. And if you love someone enough...
even if you two don't come up... it still hurts if she gets hurt. Same
for Eileen. I'm a guy who would fall in love very easily, yes, but I've
never fell in love THAT easily. So I hope it's not really love right
now. I got hurt before and I don't want this to happen again. I don't
want to blow up neither. Nobody stays in my mind that bright than the
ones I've loved. I'm talking about Gerli again, ofcourse. For anyone I
can remember, are not that bright. For she... well, let's just say even
Gerli does not feel that bright. I usually forget birthdates very
easily, but again - it took me just a brief second to memorize Gerli's
birthday and I only had to HEAR the birthdate of Eileen and I was
like.. geezh, I've never remembered any birthdate THAT easily! I don't
even know if I really remember my mum's BDay... (okay, she's dead but
like I cared... she wasn't really for a mum, she didn't live in same
city and was married for an asshole who had 5 wives before to who he
beat and all... they got drunkards. Me mum was the only one not able to
skip him. Was she afraid of him? Or didn't she have a home to go? Oh
no. I think she just loved him, that's it. She could've just come to my
place and the Family would have taken good care of him. (not as in
"take care of her"... more as in "take care of her" [notice the same
sentence?] And if you know the meaning of the word Family ( yes yes, a
capitalized letter ), then you'll indefinitely know what I am talking
about. You'll indefinitely already know what certain people know when
saying "Family".).

5) It's not a blind love... I first saw her at the entrance area,
checking people in. But the moment I started to like her was when she
asked me if "a guy had paid for his pizza, because she was afraid of
that guy since he was so big and bold looking". (I don't know if "bold"
is the right word... for me he just felt as an ordinary guy, nothing
more. But I think she didn't actually mean the word "bold", I couldn't
translate what she really said). The point is that I really suck at
close-ups. I don't do well in real. I can do VERY well in virtual
world, but I suck in reality. I just hope I get better and better daily.

Oh damn.. I really blab too much.. I should just write a novel using
different names and all, but just put everything I've ever felt in it..
or more like doing it like thoughts of another man... a movie-like..

Oh, and just one more thing... I've never "confessed" like that
anywhere you know... to anyone... it is just the Snarkpit feels really
like a bunch of guys like me who I could trust...

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Oh, and just one more thing... I've never "confessed" like that
anywhere you know... to anyone... it is just the Snarkpit feels really
like a bunch of guys like me who I could trust...

Well, I guess that is true, sense we're on the internet and couldn't do
a thing to you if we wanted to. To me, this just seems wrong, but
I'm an American, and you live in Estonia, so of course there is a
cultural difference. Good luck to you man.

Until Later...

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<DIV class=quotetitle>? quoting Nickelplate</DIV>
<DIV class=quotetext>First of all let me preface by saying that I KNOW you will think, "I won't do that, she won't do that..." </DIV></DIV>
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Madedog. I understand exactly how you feel. I've felt that way before. It didn't work out for me. I hope it works for you. But I want you to pay good attention to my "scenario post" all the same. Even though it may sound sarcastic, cynical, bitter, and other such things, it is based on lots of real experiences lots of which are my own. I know it may not seem like i care when i blast-a-n00b or when i argue voraciously with someone over something stupid, but I really do care. I care about each and every one of you here on the SnarkPit.* I just want to make sure you're not caught completely off-guard IF this scenario were to play out.

*Exceptions: Otzman?, DrGlass?, Mephs?, and that bastard, Hugh?

?Just kidding.

?Not kidding . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . okay yeah I am.

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Jupp Madedog,

This 'scenario' is hard. But I have been there, as well. Just ... consider it. Nothing more for the moment.

You seem to be a real loveable guy. So I wish you all the luck. I'd love to keep in touch with this story. I don't know what the other guys think; but I'd be very happy to hear what's going on between you two. Just how it developes... nothin' intimate.

After all.

take care

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Yeah, it IS hard. But I just called her off to cinema to get some
popcorn (she had enough of pizza in lan :biggrin: ) I'll just hope it gets all
okay with her :razz:

Well.. I can keep you in touch if you wish... (either PM or the same topic, dunno :razz: ) but right now on MSN she is cool :smile:

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Oh, and just one more thing... I've never "confessed" like that
anywhere you know... to anyone... it is just the Snarkpit feels really
like a bunch of guys like me who I could trust...

Well, I guess that is true, sense we're on the internet and couldn't do
a thing to you if we wanted to. To me, this just seems wrong, but
I'm an American, and you live in Estonia, so of course there is a
cultural difference. Good luck to you man.

Until Later...

We could always make a comment on her site mentioning this thread... :dodgy:

I wouldn't ever do that though, wish you good luck. :smile:

*Exceptions: Otzman?, DrGlass?, Mephs?, and that bastard, Hugh?
?Just kidding.

?Not kidding . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . okay yeah I am.<br style="color: white;">

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<span style="color: white;">See, now you've managed to hurt EVERYBODYS feelings

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We could always make a comment on her site mentioning this thread... :dodgy:

What site? It's only a rating place :biggrin: You rate ppl's pictures :biggrin:

And oh, btw, I bet she would only be glad :biggrin:

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Well... She is a virgin, I know that atleast :smile: (i dared to ask her as
for a "test", before that i tried asking her how to find out when a
woman is a virgin..)

She said "100%" :razz:

And she hates guys who only are going out on taking away her virginity.
I like her already :biggrin: (like even more, that is... neither am I :razz: )

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Madedog, I commend you on taking action on it rather than just let it go. As all of us guys know, it takes tremendous courage to ask a girl out, especially if she's someone you care a lot for.

However, having been there and done that, I can tell you that you are in fact not in love, but you are infatuated with her. This doesn't mean that you won't fall in love with her later, but all the symptoms and signs you've described make me conclude that you're simply infatuated.

Now, don't get me wrong. Infatuation is a powerful thing. In fact, it can burn brighter and hotter than real love, but by definition, it's not everlasting. It's relatively short-lived (which means less than a year).

You're still young, she's still young, so I see no harm in dating her. I don't think much of the age difference. Seventeen and thirteen isn't that big of a deal. It sounds like you have plenty of respect for her, and that's a good start.

I've been infatuated with many girls in my life, but when you really fall in love, you'll know right away that it's different from infatuation. It's hard to explain, but I promise you that you'll realize it when it happens to you.

Infatuation can feel a lot like love at first, but stronger. Love is more like a gentle warmth instead of sizzling heat.

Good luck to you with her.

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I already have. I asked her to cinema... she is yet to reply.. away atm.

Anyway, at cinema I'm gonna work harder on it... I'm gonna tell I like her :razz:

As I told you, I blew up with Gerli. But this time I'm more wise and DO
recognize the signs flipping around me and her. There were a lot for
Gerli which actually showed me she liked/loved me, but she had the guts
to (is "guts" the real word for dames?) at least hint me.

I've never infact heard of "infatuation"... i'm gonna have to get a dictionary, really...

Okay, got it. Nah, it's not infatuation I have.. it's more like a love
at first sight. I don't even have a unbearable feeling to kiss her...
neither for gerli, which infact IS one part of infatuation.

You said it was infatuation between me and Gerli aswell? Hereby I
grant... you are WRONG. The feeling is in me for 5 years now... do you
really think I won't give a damn what happens to women I love? I do. I
don't know what I am gonna do if something happens to Gerli. So... I
loved her. I really HAVE had infatuation for many girls, yes siree.
They
fade away. I have wanted to kiss them. I still can hold it back though.
But for Gerli it felt different. So does it for Eileen. Only
THIS time it is WAY stronger. I'd like to have a sign which tells me I
won't lost her :sad:

And thanks :smile:

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Well, it may be love after all. Only time will tell. But love and infatuation are definitely not exclusive. In fact, infatuation is frequently the precursor to true love.

From Wikipedia: [quote] Also in distinction from love, limerence tends to be comparatively short-lived. It can last up to one and half years or so, but typically lasts only a few months. Either reciprocation occurs and limerence is replaced by other feelings (possibly lasting love), [/quote]

But take things slowly (not total inaction, of course). And letting her know of your feeling is one important step. I think people tend to play games too much, afraid to reveal how they really feel about one another.

Honesty is much appreciated in today's world, and I think she'll appreciate that from you. You've got nothing to lose by telling her, but you've got everything to lose by not telling.

So go for it. Godspeed to you.

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Thank you agian, satchmo.

And as I said... the love-kind of feeling against Gerli still lasts...
I will take it slowly (the heck... she IS only 13, and - as she said -
she doesn't like guys only after her virginity :wink: ). I will tell her I
like her. I'm never doing same mistake twice. And I don't play too much
games, I was just young and dumb in 5th grade to tel anything :razz:

i know about honesty, yes I do. And so I hope. I get to lose some
things if she thinks I suck, like her, but I won't keep trying, I'm
telling you. If she tries dumping me... I'm gonna tell her about the
signs, that's it.

Oh, and one more thing... I'm going to gym for her :razz: Noone could have
done this for me, not if their life depended on it, but she... didn't
even have to tell anything. I thought it all up by myself.

And hey - if nothing turns up, it will be a good love novel!

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Is Estonia a spin-off of the soviet union? why do they use Latin alphabet? I mean, I hav never seen so many double letters in my life. "haar klaar diir raajjiit." it's like they all have palsy over there. JK

I don't want you to get the wrong impression, I DO wish you luck. and the possibility of a painful breakup is no reason to avoid relationships. I hope you guys have everything you ever wanted. But it takes wanting the same thing to make it work for good.

So if you find out that you want different things out of life, just lie to her until you can marry her, then make her do all the chores and stuff. I don't beleive in true love anymore, so that's MY plan!!

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why do they use Latin alphabet?

You know, i've asked myself the same thing but never dared ask someone
from Estonia about it mainly because of how I feel about people who ask
me the same thing about my country (which is, for the 999 thousand
time, latin).

Well, I'm pretty dang sure Romania isn't a former soviet. They've been a country for a long time! But estonia is probably like Moldova and Georgia. They are former soviets, but use Latin Alphabet because of some governmental decision. "Rumania Rules, Bitches!" "Miami Wice is cool new show!" just kidding Andrei.

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Nickelplate said:
Is Estonia a spin-off of the soviet union?

Indeed, the Soviet Union went through a terrific run in a prime time slot, but in the end, there were just too many egos. While Mother Russia fled to Hollywood to star in a number of motion pictures, Estonia was spun off into its own series Wednesday nights on the WB. Supporting actors include Lithuania is the wild, whacky neighbor and Fred Willard as the demanding boss.

If you want the real answer as to it's location, there are three smallish globular shaped countries along the Baltic Sea, straight east from Denmark. They are Lithuania, Latvia, and Estonia. I can never remember which is which, but I figure knowing this information (and also knowing there is in fact an unconnected piece of Russia in there too) is enough to placate any internationals I might encounter into viewing me as more than just another dumb, self-centered American.

I am that dumb American.

For a while, I thought Estonia is a fictitious country that exists only in the Dilbert comics. I apologize for my ignorance in world politics, and I am deeply sorry if I had offended any Estonian out there.

I've been on the receiving end of other people's ignorance. I was born in Taiwan, but many people think that's just a different pronounciation for Thailand.

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